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The Forum
Mom's 40 and older with small children
Hello this is a circle for women who are older and either starting over with children or just now having children at an older age.
LATEST POSTED BY: MarkWow-- just saw I'm posting under my husband's name. he set us up, I do the blogging. Better get a new sreen name..!ViewJune.7th.2010
Moms In The Know
Information, discussions, and articles regarding the latest topics all Moms should know about.
LATEST POSTED BY: Katie SheererThis is good news for my parents since my 12 year old brother slept in their bed every night up until about a year ago! Do you allow your children to sleep in your bed with you? _____________________________________________________________________ Co-Sleeping With Your Kids ISN’T Bad For Them — New Study Reveals Researchers have discovered moms and dads who share a bed with their babies aren’t stunting their development and social skills. Parents have been warned for years against letting their children into their beds, but research shows there are no harmful effects — as long as you wait until your baby is a year old. Besides the dangers of accidental injury and sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) it’s been suggested in the past that co-sleeping stunts kids’ social skills. But researchers at New York’s Stony Brook University have blown the lid off that theory. They examined nearly a thousand moms with kids aged between one and three and found almost a half admitted to sharing their bed with their child. When the kids were studied at the age of five, there was no difference between the children that had slept alongside their mothers than those that had slept apart. Stony Brook University professor Dr. Lauren Hale concludes, “Parents can do what works best for their family and not feel guilty if they choose to bed-share, because there probably aren’t lasting impacts.” Click to see the article: http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/parenting/co-sleeping-with-your-kids-isn-t-bad-for-them-new-study-reveals-2513408/ViewJuly.20th.2011
Raising our Kids & a Garden Too
Welcome to The Motherhood Community Garden! Every year I learn a little more about gardening. Would love to connect with other moms who also like to dig in the dirt and make things grow.
LATEST POSTED BY: Kayla SFirst Lady writes book on edible gardening Washington (CNN) – First lady, wife, mother, careerist, fashionista - Michelle Obama can now add "author" to her list of credentials. Obama has written a book that highlights one of her most visible initiatives as first lady: promoting better nutrition and edible gardening as a means for Americans to get and stay healthy. "American Grown: How the White House Kitchen Garden Inspires Families, Schools, and Communities" aims to explore "how increased access to healthy, affordable food can promote better eating habits and improve the health of families and communities across America," according to a press release issued Monday by the Crown Publishing Group. "Mrs. Obama will describe how her daughters Sasha and Malia were catalysts for change in her own family's eating behavior, which inspired Mrs. Obama to plant an edible garden on the South Lawn - the first since Eleanor Roosevelt's "Victory Garden," planted during World War II." The first lady did not accept an advance for the book and will donate all proceeds to a charity to be revealed later, the statement says. Random House Inc., Crown Publishing Group's parent, will also make a donation to a charity. The book will be on sale nationwide starting April 10. Original article: http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2011/10/24/flotus-writes-book-on-edible-gardening/ViewOctober.26th.2011
Husbands and Wives
The highs and lows, fights and makeups, issues and intrigues of being part of a couple "for better or worse." And how we as couples influence our children.
LATEST POSTED BY: Erin ODoes your partner look like you? My husband and I are similar in coloring and height, but no one has ever mistaken us for blood relations. ____ Reflection connection: Finding your face mate By Georgia Garvey I RedEye Ever look into a mirror and say, "Hey there, good-looking. Come here often?" Some online dating services are banking on just that--an affection for your reflection--and matching clients based on similar facial features before lining them up on the other stuff (likes, dislikes, level of distaste for Coldplay). The sites use facial recognition software to match features and then pair couples who have the most in common. Among them are the New York-based findyourfacemate.com, which launched this year and claims to pair daters based on their faces, and an offering from Coca-Cola, which recently announced a face-matching app on Facebook. Some dating experts said the new focus puts too high a priority on looks and not enough on personality. "It makes no sense at all. ... How self-conceited do you have to be?" said Vilius Gavrilenka, an event director for Chicago-based Date & Dash, who did say he can see how some would want to date someone of a similar level of attractiveness. But, he added, "There are so many other variables in a relationship that are more important." The idea behind the sites is based on studies like one published in June 2010 by the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign that examined people's sexual attraction for others who resembled them. In that study, people said those who looked like them or their parents were more attractive. R. Chris Fraley, who authored the U. of I. study, said he can see implications for dating. "If you were to set people up on the basis of similarity in their facial features, those people would find one another as more attractive than they would if they were paired in a less systematic fashion," Fraley said in an email, but added that "simply finding someone attractive doesn't guarantee that the relationship will work well in the long-term." Others said the computer-based scheme takes some of the mystery out of dating. "It sounds so scary," said Jim Sullivan, a New York-based dating coach. "It's an abomination of the whole dating process." But many acknowledge there's no harm to the approach. Ultimately, any excuse to chat someone up can be a good ice-breaker. "It's actually both goofy and it makes sense," said Kevin Chmura, a River North dating coach. He said that regardless of whether there's "legitimate" psychology behind the process, just having a seemingly scientific rationale for setting two people up "can give them that kind of [dating] confidence." Read the article: http://www.redeyechicago.com/news/redeye-reflection-connection-finding-your-face-mate-20110605,0,6484535.photogalleryViewJune.6th.2011
Emily's Circle
Hi, I'm co-founding mother of TheMotherhood. I have two girls, ages 10 and 8, and live outside New York City. When I'm not hanging out here in the neighborhood, you can find me: On Twitter: http://twitter.com/EmilyMcKhann On Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/emily.mckhann
LATEST POSTED BY: CooperHappy Birthday to Emily!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!ViewJuly.27th.2010
Becki's Circle
Personal Circle for Becki
LATEST POSTED BY: BeckiWell, I've finally committed: I went ahead and registered for the Susan G. Komen Foundation 3-Day for the Cure for breast cancer. It's a three-day, 60 mile walk to raise money for breast cancer research and programs. I will be walking in honor of my SIL Janice, who beat back breast cancer in 2004 only to have it return in one of her lymph nodes this year. But I'm also walking because two of my friends lost sisters to breast cancer within the past year. One of those friends was herself diagnosed with early-stage breast cancer and had a double mastectomy in order to avoid going through all that her sister had endured. I hate asking for money, but each walker must raise a minimum of $2300 in order to participate. I figure that if I can get 230 people to donate $10 each, I can make it. Most people can afford $10. In my heart of hearts, I'd like to raise $10,000, but I'll be satisfied if I can raise enough to participate. Donating online is convenient, and of course it's tax deductible. If you would like to donate to my walk, you can do so quickly and easily by clicking here. It's hard to find anybody who hasn't been touched in some way by this disease. I'd love to see it eradicated before our daughters have to worry about it.ViewMarch.21st.2010
deborah's circle
keeping it together in a circle
LATEST POSTED BY: Deborah"Choose to align yourself with people who are like-minded in their search for simplified inspiration. Give those who find fault or who are confrontational a silent blessing and remove yourself from their energy as quickly as possible. Your life is simplified enormously when you don’t have to defend yourself to anyone, and when you receive support rather than criticism." - Dr. Wayne DyerViewFebruary.26th.2011
gottalovemom's Circle
Personal Circle for gottalovemom
LATEST POSTED BY: gottalovemomWhat has happened to mall advertising? This photo was taken at our mall. There's a banner that says: 16% of the people admit to interrupting sex to check their messages...WTF? It seems like even at the mall, I can't really take my 9yo shopping... Is it me? Did I lose my sense of humor? Am I being uptight about nothing? Here's the rest...http://gottalovemom.blogspot.com/2010/09/is-it-me-did-i-lose-my-sense-of-humor.htmlViewSeptember.26th.2010
Love to Bake
Share photographs and tips on baking your favorite recipe!
LATEST POSTED BY: Kayla SGingerbread in a snap CNN.com - Oh come all ye Christmas carol literalists: PNC Wealth Management recently released its annual "Twelve Days of Christmas" calculation for holiday shoppers in the market for milk maids and French hens. This year, springing for the whole menagerie, from twelve drummers drumming to a partridge (complete with pear tree), will set an aspiring Santa back a hefty $101,119.84. But in case your house is already crowded enough without throwing eleven pipers into the mix, the scent of gingerbread baking is a wonderful gift - for a smidgen of the true cost of Christmas. Pastry chef and bakery owner Dominique Ansel will have you run-run-running as fast as you can ... to the kitchen with his fragrantly spiced adaptation of the classic holiday treat. Click for recipe: http://eatocracy.cnn.com/2011/12/19/gingerbread-in-a-snap/?hpt=ea_mid&hpt=hp_bn8ViewDecember.19th.2011Brandie's Circle
All Brandie. All the time!
LATEST POSTED BY: BrandieWe just downloaded a bunch of education apps on my children's iPad. I'm impressed at how they are using them without me asking them to and my 8yo is asking for things that are harder because some of them are too easy for her. I was thinking if everything they needed to learn was on an iPad app in the form of a game, she'd learn her entire 3rd grade curriculum in about a month LOL! But this works out well. On the days I'm not feeling well or at the doctors for a long time, they can still do lots of learning without needing me. I also think, especially for the things they are still in the process of learning, they can make a lot of mistakes without me looking over their shoulder to see the mistakes ... they are willing to try more and do more. Who would have thought? I struggled with school at my daughter's current ages (8 and 11) and I can't help but wonder if the iPad had been around or I had access to more games than just Oregon Trail and Math Blaster if I would have spent more time working on things and done better. Anyway, just random thoughts from me when I should really be sleeping LOL!ViewAugust.24th.2011
Mothers Obsessed with Edward Cullen and Twilight
Are you in love with Edward Cullen? Do you keep re-reading the Twilight books? Have you watched the movie more than once? Do you feel like these teenage vampire stories have taken a bite out of your life? Let's talk!
LATEST POSTED BY: Melissa StantonHello Ladies. Breaking Dawn opens tonight!! Alas, I can't go until Sunday. But I'll be leading a group of 10 on our outing. AARP let me update my essay "Confessions of a Grown 'Twihard'" Take a look, hit the "Recommend" button, or share the link if you're so inclined. http://www.aarp.org/entertainment/movies-for-grownups/info-11-2011/Confessions-of-a-Grown-Twihard.html Hope you get to see the movie soon!ViewNovember.17th.2011
Life According to the Crock Pot
Every few days I secretly change the "quotation" magnet message on our crock pot. It has made a mark on our family in ways I never thought it could. Here is a real time account of life lessons as learned by our Quote-on-a-Crock-Pot experiment. How do you talk about "life lessons" in different ways in your house?
LATEST POSTED BY: robinHi Cooper! Thanks for telling me about your circle. Don't know how I missed it! Absolutely LOVE it :)ViewOctober.11th.2011
2010: Stepping it UP!
A year ago, we declared, "2009 is going to be MY year!" It has been! Moms in the Motherhood have achieved goals of going back to school, starting businesses, losing weight, and much more. Are we resting on our laurels in 2010? No way! We're stepping it up! This will be our year, too!
LATEST POSTED BY: juliepippertTo save one, you often have to spend the other. (And you never seem to have enough of either, do you?) Here’s how to make the right call. A MUST read. I had several epiphanies while reading this article: I need to listen more to my own voice instead of those "voices in my head" from peer influence, I need to be more realistic about my time and how much I can (and should) take on, and I need to always run through the awesome checklist of questions to ask before deciding between money and time. I think initially it will take time, but in the end, it will become second-nature and well worth it to make better decisions. A little teaser: "Every day you’re faced with a time vs. money dilemma. Should you hire a lawn service to mow the grass or do it yourself? Bake brownies for the PTA meeting or pick up some from the bakery? To make the most clearheaded call, you’ll need to overcome the following three factors. Then figure out how much time and money you actually have―and what that time is worth." http://www.realsimple.com/work-life/money/money-or-time-00000000031091/index.htmlViewMarch.31st.2010
Seasons
Photographs of the different seasons...Just a circle to admire the beauty or WHATEVER of each season :)
LATEST POSTED BY: gottalovemomWinter Wonderland, Media Noche & the New Year! Wishing everyone here at theMotherhood, a Happy New Year! More pics of this week's blizzard - http://gottalovemom.blogspot.com/2010/12/snow.htmlViewDecember.31st.2010Motivate Me To Be Fit
For our body and soul: a place where we can motivate each other to eat healthy and exercise - be it cardio, weight lifting, pilates, HipHop Abs, or Yoga. So post your goals and actual work-out. Let's have fun! (Make sure you consult your doctor before starting any exercise routine - just be true to yourself!)
LATEST POSTED BY: gottalovemomMountains, the beach and the sky: being close to nature, where my mind can be calm. These settings give me a zen feeling. What about you?ViewOctober.6th.2011Three things I got done today!
Because as Mom's the stuff we get done also gets undone just as quick... we need to make a note of the things we did get done everyday!
LATEST POSTED BY: Quiltndollmaker1. Dusted the floors quietly with a dust mop. 2. Had a political discussion with son M and his friend that I hope made them think since they are newbie voters. 3. Watched a big beef roast shrink in oven as it cooked...but it was good!ViewApril.30th.2012
Asperger/Autism Moms
Hi My name is Tammi I created this circle is for those Moms dealing with children who have Aspergers syndrome and other spectrum disorders. I have an 11 year old son with Aspergers and it's a challenging thing to live with everyday and this a place where we can chat & vent about those daily struggles and also the joys as parents.
LATEST POSTED BY: PennieHi, my name is Pennie, I have 2 boys with aspergers. Just looking to talk with someone who understands. Having issues at school with bullies. Husband that although I love him to death also not a big help, still in denial. Does understand "issues" which creates issues.... just need some advise .ViewJanuary.7th.2012
South Beach Diet
Looking for a diet that works (especially on belly fat), doesn't require bizarre shakes or supplements, and encourages you to eat fresh, healthy, whole foods? Give the South Beach Diet a try!
LATEST POSTED BY: BeckiChicken Souvlaki http://kalynskitchen.blogspot.com/2008/07/chicken-souvlaki-recipe.html Since grilling season is almost here, I offer this scrumptious-looking, South Beach-friendly recipe from Kalyn's Kitchen!ViewApril.14th.2010Ask a Question
This circle is a place to ask questions and get information!
LATEST POSTED BY: robinHey moms, I am having a little problem getting the links I post here to to go live. Noticed this feature has been down a day or two in the Hood...is it just me or is anyone else noticing this? The comments feature seems really slow, too.ViewJanuary.29th.2011Free Range Kids (and parents!)
A circle for parents who are raising free range kids, or want to move away from being helicopter parents!
LATEST POSTED BY: Erin OWho Really Cares How Yuppies Raise Their Kids? By MOTOKO RICH First there was Amy Chua, the Yale law professor and author of “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother,” who sent legions of parents into a tizzy with her exacting standards for piano practice and prohibitions against sleepovers. Now comes Bryan Caplan, an economist at George Mason University whose book “Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids: Why Being a Great Parent is Less Work and More Fun Than You Think” was published on Tuesday. In it, he argues that parenting hardly matters, and that we should just let our children watch more television and play video games. With parenting made so easy, he says, we should go ahead and have more children. It’s the age-old nature-or-nurture debate. Ms. Chua clearly favors the nurture side of the equation (if her heavy-handed approach could be described as “nurturing”). Mr. Caplan, who has already been dubbed the “Un-Tiger Mom,” writes, “While healthy, smart, happy, successful, virtuous parents tend to have matching offspring, the reason is largely nature, not nurture.” Though Mr. Caplan’s prescription for an increased birthrate is a new twist, variations of the argument have been made before. In the mid-’90s, Judith Rich Harris wrote in “The Nurture Assumption” that peers have a much greater impact on children than parents do. More recently, in “Freakonomics,” Steven D. Levitt and Stephen J. Dubner wrote that “it isn’t so much a matter of what you do as a parent; it’s who you are.” There seems to be endless appetite for such discussions. And the all-or-nothing views tend to generate the most interest. Why the fascination? Find out: http://www.nytimes.com/2011/04/17/weekinreview/17nurture.html?_r=1ViewApril.18th.2011
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