Dinner for Busy Moms

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    • Emily 0 comments
    • We are excited for this converssation! We all know how important family dinner is ... and how hard it can be to pull off. Let's talk!
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      Emily

      We'll have lots of conversation around family dinners for non-cooks!!!

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    • JennS 1 comment
    • Ohhhh! This looks perfect for me. You have no idea how much this non-cook could learn from this one. I can't wait!
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    • Jeanne Muchnick 0 comments
    • I'm excited too (and promise to upload my excited happy face when I finally post my photo). This book/conversation/challenge is ALL about doing what works for us busy moms. I'm not really what you'd call a cook -- but I DO think we moms are often too busy scheduling our kids, and catering to our work and other deadlines that we let dinner go by the wayside. Can't wait to "dish" (pun intended).
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    • onceamonthmom 0 comments
    • Looking forward to Wednesday! Not only the chat but to "meet" some of the other great moms and cooks included in this circle!
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      Nicole Bohorad

      hi Jen, look forward to seeing you there!

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    • JenSinger 1 comment
    • I'll be there with the funny. Looking forward to hanging out with you all.
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      Nicole Bohorad

      That's great, to hear, Thien!

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    • thienkim 1 comment
    • ooh, I'm excited about this! I always hate the "What's for dinner?" dilemma. BTW, I randomly picked up some Sprout roasted pear last week for the baby. I'd never heard of it but liked the packaging. The baby loved it and I tasted it. Pretty darn good! I'm impressed.
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    • Deborah 0 comments
    • Passionate about eating together. Looking forward to getting more ideas for dinner. Quick, healthy ideas.
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      Nicole Bohorad

      hi Beth! it's a great photo. and I'm sure we all have harried stories about how to cook dinner and entertain kids at the same time!

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      Emily

      I LOVE this photo, Beth!

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    • RoleMommy 2 comments
    • I just realized - I'm the only person without a photo attached. Here I am - I do not look like a robot.
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      Nicole Bohorad

      For avacado, I have been using it instead of mayonaise:)

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      juliepippert

      Brandie, I take fresh baby spinach leaves and throw hot pasta and warm sauce on top. That lightly wilts them (mild cooking) so they are still full of nutrients, easy peasy and yum. But that's all I've got: sandwiches, pasta and salad.

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      Brandie

      I would love ideas for baby spinach (and plain old spinach) aside from salad. We eat a lot of it here -but only in salad. There must be more I can do with it!

      over 2 years ago
    • juliepippert 3 comments
    • Looking forward to this! I pledged to Choose You to improve my diet. I am hoping for the words "avocado" and "baby spinach." Hint hint.
      over 2 years ago
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    • LindsayRobin 0 comments
    • Looking forward to joining the conversation. I love cooking, but have recently been losing steam. Hopefully this will inspire me to continue cooking healthy meals with the fam :)
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      consider buying store brands....it saves a lot of money. I also love Mrs Greens or Whole Foods for those healthy choices you need to find. Sometimes just walking down fodo aisles gives me ideas for dinner.

      over 2 years ago
    • Brandie 1 comment
    • I really do enjoy cooking - it's just I never have enough time, the kids randomly decide this will be the day they stop eating what I make, budget is tight, and I dread the thought of clean-up. Then factor in my 7yo shouldn't eat wheat, dairy, or soy and I have now come to dread dinner instead of dreaming of all the yummy things I could be cooking my family. So, any help for me will be GREATLY appreciated!
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      HeatherS

      Just made some soup myself - it's like going to the grocery store hungry to text about food without eating any!!!

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      Emily

      I JUST did the same thing!!!! Can't be too hungry going into this!

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    • Jeanne Muchnick 2 comments
    • I'm so excited to talk food. Had to grab some yogurt so I could talk/text food without getting hungry!!
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      Emily

      Hi FoodontheTable, so great to see you here!!

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    • FoodontheTable 1 comment
    • Also passionate about eating dinner together. Looking forward to the talk!
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      Nicole Bohorad

      I'm here! That sounds delicious! Have to say that I'm not sure what I did before my Cuisinart Fuzzy Logic Rice cooker - it does everything!

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      Brandie

      Sounds delish!!!

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      Dawn Viola

      Braised BBQ pork. Had to get it in the pot now or it wouldn't be ready by dinner time.

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      Brandie

      So what are you making? =)

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      Dawn Viola

      Hi Everyone! Hope you don't mind...I'm ironically cooking dinner as we're chatting :-)

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      Emily

      Hi Brandie, welcome!

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      Brandie

      It's back for me now - and hopefully won't go down again!!

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      Emily

      Twitter wasn't working for me and then it just started up again! Phew!!! Love getting the word out there!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 8 comments
    • Yikes! Twitter is over capacity -- says too many tweets. Can I say OY! Would have to be on "MY" talk-day..but hopefully we can all get in later...or in a few. I'm SO excited to hear what concerns you all most about getting healthy meals on the table.
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      you're so sweet. thanks katie!

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    • Katie 1 comment
    • Can't wait! Love the book Jeanne!!!
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      rockandrollmama

      Braising! I love that word, will have to try that more!

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      Laurie

      We're doing turkey cutlets, rice and salad. I agree with Dawn - Braising is wonderful.

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      Dawn Viola

      I just started a pork butt on the stove, braising, for BBQ tonight. I LOVE braising. Although the meat takes time to cook, you can do lots of other things while it's braising. It's one of the easiest ways to cook. And, if you use a slow cooker, you can set it in the morning and come home to a wonderful dinner.

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      Brandie

      Sadly, I have NO clue what I'm making tonight. We have a softball game so I need something quick and easy for sure. But tomorrow I"m making barley soup. So I sort of, kind of plan!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 4 comments
    • Hi Everyone. It's noon. Time to talk dinner! Curious: do any of you know what you're serving tonight? We're doing roast chicken (from store) but I'm making corn and mashed potatoes.
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    • Emily 0 comments
    • At the end of the Talk we'll announce the winner of the giveaway - Sprout Baby Food is giving one month's supply of organic baby food to one participant in the conversation. We'll chose a winner randomly from one person who joins in the conversation. Thank you, Sprout!
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      Nicole Bohorad

      Jeanne, love your book! I've already used your recipes to make quick dinners for my family!

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    • Jeanne Muchnick 1 comment
    • FOr me, the hardest part about dinner is figuring out how to fit it into my day. Which is why I use Sundays to meal plan, "shop" my pantry and basically shuffle my recipes and talk to my family about what they might want to eat...and what the family schedule looks like for the week.
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    • rockandrollmama 0 comments
    • I'll be at a new parent picnic for school, thank goodness, or I would be up a creek for sides tonight!
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      Laurie

      This sounds wonderful Gayle.

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    • Gayle Williams 1 comment
    • I'm making turkey chili with brown rice and some cornbread, along with a salad.
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Get any good gossip last night?

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      that is SOO nice. Nothing says 'home' or 'love' to me more than a homecooked meal. I think it's like a warm hug at the end of a long day..and even better when you can share with someone. I'm all about inviting people over for dinner, too, especially your kid's friends. That way, you get them to talk/open up more.

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    • rockandrollmama 2 comments
    • But was proud last night when my son's tutor was stuck in traffic and we were able to feed him when he arrived.
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      Nicole Bohorad

      As mentioned in your book, last night I used the split pea soup kit from The Healthy Pantry and added in my own lentils and onions.

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      Laurie

      My top time savers are also leftovers - I plan for it when I cook. Left over chicken is great for salads and sandwiches anytime and soup in the winter.

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      Katie

      I love the idea of combining something easy as a shortcut to more elaborate dishes! Last night I "cheated" and used Trader Joe's ravioli, but topped with with my own "sauce:" chopped tomatoes, garlic, onion, and fresh basil. Delish!

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    • Jeanne Muchnick 3 comments
    • Top time savers for me are pre-cooked chicken breasts, frozen veggies, bottled marinadees, garlic, pepper and dry-rubs. I also admit that I buy a lot of those pre-sliced veggies from supermarket -- even thought they are more expensive.
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      JenSinger

      He took up cooking after he started running marathons. I think he was just really hungry.

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      Emily

      Oh that is too funny! I would LOVE to hear those words!!!!

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    • JenSinger 2 comments
    • I admit it: The 5 most romantic words my husband says to me are: "Get out of my kitchen."
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      so sorry I'm late in responding to this note. Because I'm from Maryland orginally, I've gotten my kids into crabcakes so will make those most likely, if not tonight, tomorrow. Warm weather gets me thinking crabs!

      over 2 years ago
    • rockandrollmama 1 comment
    • What are you making, Jeanne?
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      rockandrollmama

      Totally agree, and the weeks when I plan on Sunday are much smoother than the ones where I fly by the seat of my pants.

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      Brandie

      For us it's all about planning. Often we can't buy a lot of time savers at the store - because they aren't safe for my daughter. So here planning is definitely the key.

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      Dawn Viola

      Couldn't agree more! Although my job is cooking and developing recipes all day (which I LOVE!!), we always, no matter what, have dinner together as a family.

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 3 comments
    • I Am not a cook. But I DO think dinner with my family is important...and so I turn to time savers and meal planning to make dinners easier. It's all about PLANNING to plan. What do you all think?
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      Brandie

      I love using the crock pot! =)

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    • onceamonthmom 1 comment
    • I have a whole chicken in the crockpot so pretty sure that will be our main course (although it is being cooked for a blog post. . .he he).
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      I'm in NY so STILL waiting for warm weather to put things on grill. I ADORE the grill - use a George Forman one inside so I can grill salmon, chicken, meats and "feel" like I'm outside year-round.

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      yum! That sounds good!

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    • FoodontheTable 2 comments
    • I marinated steaks this morning, will put them on the grill tonight!
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      It's also just easier for your peace of mind, which is really what it's about. I think we moms do a lot and dinner should not be a burden. Which is why I also think SIMPLE works. Sandwiches. Soups. Baked potatoes stuffed with whatever. Make your own pizza. Taco nights.

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      Emily

      That's a great way to look at it! On the busy days, if it's too complicated to get it done at home, we might go out and that's way more expensive!

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    • rockandrollmama 2 comments
    • Sometimes I think spending money is worth the time. and I know we'll eat better at home if I spend the money on some convenience items, KWIM?
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    • HeatherS 0 comments
    • One of my favorite recipes is a baked ziti - I actually make two one to eat and one to freeze. It is just as easy to double that and other recipes like chili, spaghetti sauce, soups and put one away for another dinner later.
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      I often make recipes up by throwing a bunch of things together. Add some rice or baked potato and it's all good.

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      Nicole Bohorad

      I agree! The rice cooker I have does rice, oatmeal, steaming, sauteeing and is a crock pot all in one! I recently made round eye beef with sauteed onions, onion soup mix, a crushed tomato based sauce, sauteed garlic, and beef broth. You can practically make recipes up - add in basic broths and soup mixes to protein, and then add in the vegetables last!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 2 comments
    • Rice cookers; pressure cookers are KEY> I love throwing things in crock pot in the morning and then coming home after a long day to the smells of something wonderful cooking. Have any favorites you do in rice cooker Nicole?
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      I LOVE chilis and stews. Less so in summer, which is when we often grill.

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      MelissaChapman

      Yes- my husband is the designated cook of the family and he LOVES preparing big ole p batches of stuff and freezing the extras which of course makes my life much easier

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      Brandie

      I do the same thing with manicotti - I will triple or quadruple the recipe and freeze almost all of it. I love it. BUT (see you'll hear this a lot) I haven't figured out how to make it safe for my 7 yo so when I make it, I have to make her something different which makes me feel guilty. I think though it doesn't bother her as much as it bothers me LOL!)

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      RoleMommy

      I'm here too! I'm a big fan of baked ziti and cooking the day before you want to eat - that way, you refrigerate it and it's good to go the next time at dinner!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 4 comments
    • I LOVE baked ziti. SImple but oh, so comforting. I also agree with you, Heather on freezing. I LOVE LOVE simply ADORE my frezer. I'm forever doubling recipes and putting extra in freezer. I also think it's great to label everything in freezer so you know what you have. Freezers give you peace of mind with dinner.
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      Nicole Bohorad

      also quick is making an omlette with cheese and all the vegetables you can find!

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    • Emily 1 comment
    • My fail-safe, easy-peasy is risotto with whatever veggies I can find in the frig.
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Thatta-girl. ORder more than you need so you have leftovers to play with. You can put shrimp in a wrap; veggies in a stir-fry or puree and put in a tomato sauce so kids don't know there's more to their spaghetti than meets the eye!

      over 2 years ago

      MelissaChapman

      I know we often get steamed chicken with broccoli Chinese takeout- and use it in other dishes-- i.e. STRETCHING it out so I don't really have to cook

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Melissa: you're so sweet. I agree non-cooking is key. best tips and tricks for me: throwing pasta in boiling water; add store-bought roittiserie chicken and frozen veggies in and you have a great primavera!

      over 2 years ago

      MelissaChapman

      I have to be honest I'm a HUGE fan of morning star farms veggie burgers and then there's my phone finger-

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Let's talk non-cooking! What are some of the best tricks and tips?

      over 2 years ago
    • MelissaChapman 5 comments
    • I'm here Jeanne's book has been a LIFESAVER for me as a complete and utter non-cook
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      JenSinger

      Very true. It makes it easier, too. No special trip.

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Many supermarkets now carry their own organic brands which helps bring the price down too.

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      rockandrollmama

      I use many Trader joes and store brand organics- love giant Simple brand, and safe ways O.

      over 2 years ago

      JenSinger

      I agree Dawn. As a cancer survivor, I've tried to make our meals as organic as possible. There are a lot of good preservative-free packaged goods these days.

      over 2 years ago
    • Dawn Viola 4 comments
    • Quick dinner shortcuts, love the prepared foods and pre-cut veggies, but be sure you're reading labels carefully! Lots of the prepared, bottled and packaged foods has nasty chemicals in them for a loooong shelf life. Stick with ingredients you can pronounce and recognize in time-saver packaged foods.
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      I'm with ya, sista!

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      rockandrollmama

      Agree completely! I pretty much refuse to feel guilty all around. Heaven knows we're all busting our humps, and that's gonna have to be good enough.

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 2 comments
    • the bottom line for me is trying not to feel guilty if I don't serve the "perfect meal" every night. So whatever shortcuts it takes to get there work for me. I think the added expense of a sliced and diced veggie is worthy my peace of mind. Lindsay: you agree, right?
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      Tracy Mayor

      Re: fish, we belong to a fish CSA (which is so cool, local sustainable amazingly fresh fish once a week) and my husband figured out this great way to make a "fried" fish sandwich that my kids love -- not really fried, you coat the filet with egg, panko bread crumbs and cornmeal, then broil it. Way better than frying (and less cleanup) and the kids will eat it because it looks like a McD's filet-o-fish to them. (sad)

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      I'm always adding chicken to soups and carrots. they get soft and kids will eat. I also like celery and little onion -- for better flavor.

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Personally I love fish. but not always an easy "sell" to kids. salmon in a ginger/soy sauce is good

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      Nicole Bohorad

      thanks:) I should try and think about what you could put in the soup to make it kid-friendly! sometimes a nice piece of bread works:) Also, love the fake stir fry. also so easy to add in cut up tofu!

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      LOVE that idea, Nicole. I LOVE split pea soup. My kids, unfortuantely, are not huge fans.

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      MelissaChapman

      Yes if I made it it would be called sop-- but when husband makes split pea with lentils it's soup;)

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      MelissaChapman

      WE LOVE split pea sop with lentils we also eats LOTS of beans=husband just throws them in with some garlic and onions and they're so filling!

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      Nicole Bohorad

      I had mentioned split pea soup, and throw in lentils:)

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Brandie: WHAT an AWEsome idea. Fake stir fry. One woman told me she freezes rice and then makes "rice pizza" with whatever leftovers they have. So a tomato sauce with meat and cheese works on top of rice. Grilled chicken works. Even hamburger meat/sloppy joes on rice.

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      Tracy Mayor

      These are all great suggestions. My added challenge is, when I take the meat out, my kids don't replace it by eating more veggies, they just go straight carb. They're both carbotarians to begin with; just as happy eating pasta and baguettes and bagels and pizza for the rest of their lives, so the dual challenge is keeping non-meat protein and veggies in the mix. They will do rice and beans, which is cheap and fast.

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      Brandie

      I do what I call fake stir fry that is meatless. It's basically rice and whatever veggies are in the fridge all chopped up and mixed together. And then we add in not-soy soy sauce LOL! Sometimes I'll throw in eggs too! There are lots of great rice recipes that we use. Of course I can't think of them right now. Soups are a big staple in our house - so many beans and rice and noddles can go into soups without you feeling like "pasta. again" kind of feeling. The other thing I do is make meat not the staple of the meal. That way we aren't always scrambling, but we eat less than a serving of meat a day - that is when I can do it. You know if you are making meatballs to throw into pasta sauce, you don't need to give everyone 6 of them, give them 1-2 - they'll get the meat taste (you make 24 and freeze them for next dinner). So you are using less meat but still getting meat with your dinners.

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      Emily - it sounds like it is time for you to try a Once A Month Mom Menu! The summer one is super easy! I think I could make a convert of you. :)

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      Tracy Mayor

      @Emily, I have that Bittman book too, and I love it, but it's definitely overwhelming. Too many options. I find myself going back to my ancient Moosewood Cooks at Home. There's one good burrito recipe in there, it has tofu but my kids haven't noticed that... yet...

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      This is such a good question! Ever since reading Mark Bittman's books, I've been trying to do the same, and I always end up with tons of pans and cleanup and lots more effort.

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      onceamonthmom

      My kids love the french toast sticks and the mac cups

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      onceamonthmom

      I have a few recipes on my site that are freezer friendly vegetarian recipes. Make a single batch or go to that month's menu printable and print off how to make lots and freeze - they can be found here: http://onceamonthmom.com/once-a-month-mom-vegetarian-meals/

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      Tracy, great question! Chopping and blanching veggies ahead of time and keeping them on hand in the fridge will save you tons of time. When you're ready for them, they're already cut and partially cooked.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      what about cheese quesadillas? or sandwiches and soup? or make your own pizza with veggies on top?

      over 2 years ago
    • Tracy Mayor 18 comments
    • Hey, I have a question for you experts...I'm trying to eat less meat and serve less to my family, for both eco and ethical reasons. I have a ton of great vegetarian recipes stockpiled, but they're twice as time-consuming as throwing a hunk of meat on the grill or under the broiler. Any ideas for fast vegetarian (with protein) that kids will eat, or is that asking too much? :-)
      over 2 years ago
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    • Jeanne Muchnick 0 comments
    • Thanks, Dawn. I know that's true. I always check first five ingredients to make sure they sound good, i.e. sugar isn't first on list!
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      Gayle Williams

      Parents, and everyone, really, needs to be aware that this stuff is hidden in so many of the foods we eat. Being aware is the first part of the battle. Eating fresh really will help.

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      HeatherS

      Thanks Gayle, will share that with our Jack's Harvest twitter followers!

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      THat is such a hot topic, Gayle. I don't think many of us realize how much hidden sugar and sodium are in our diets. What ever happened to the old days when we didn't have to worry about this stuff? I do think there is a return to the old ways of fresh/fresh/fresh!

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      And here's something that should be of note to kids and adults alike: Our tests on hidden sugar and sodium, and how to get them out of our diets: http://tinyurl.com/4p42v2>

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      Gayle Williams

      Here's a link to our earlier report on kids' cereals: http://tinyurl.com/44fkvf

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      In the past, we've also done a test of kids' cereals -- which aren't just for kids, we found out!

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Hi Jeanne! We are planning some tests of kids' juice boxes in the not-too-distant future.

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Gayle: Is there anything else Consumer Reports is working on that pertains to this topic that we moms would be interested in? Are you doing french fries next? Or juices? I'm NOT a big fan of juice.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Exactly, Laurie. They're not for everyday consumption, but when you have to use them as your go-to meal, or if your kids are in a phase when they won't eat anything else,you want to make a good, reasonable choice

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Plus, I don't think we should feel guilty for feeding these to our kids. Again: it's about balance. Nuggets one night; something healthier the next.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I agree. We need to be REALISTIC. Kids ARE eating these. Moms are feeding them to their kids. It shouldn't be the choice EVERY night of the week, but to ignore the facts would be foolish.

      over 2 years ago

      Laurie

      I say everything in moderation...with chicken nuggets, stay with healthiest brands and not every day.

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      Gayle Williams

      The top Rated nuggets were; 1. Market Pantry (Target brand) 2. Bell and Evans Breaded 3. Kirkland Signature Disney (Costco's brand) They were all rated Good in terms of nutrition and did well with our trained sensory panelists.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Our kid testers - a panel of 31 boys and girls ages 6 to 17, LOVED McDonald's McNuggets, which are battered. The supermarket and store brands tend to be breaded. Bottom line is, kids (and their parents) are eating these things, so we wanted to give our readers info to make a better choice.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      chicken nuggets were my "go to" when my kids were young. I was happy to see in article that McDonald's wasn't actually all that bad. Though I'm a huge huge Trader Joe fan.

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      Gayle Williams

      Actually - a correction: We had ONE that was Rateed VERY GOOD in terms of nutrition: Health is Wealth brand.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      I think nuggets scared me every since reading one of Pollan's books. We make our own. I've heard there is a GF chicken nugget on the market though. It's really good at hiding because I've never actually seen it LOL!

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      Not a big fan of packaged nuggets since they're so easy and quick to make at home with chicken tenderloins.

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      Gayle Williams

      Linda, We didn't find any that are Excellent or Very Good, in terms of nutrition, but all that we tested were Rated At least fair and many were Good. None were poor.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      They're really not all bad. Of course, you don't want yours or your child's whole diet to consist of chicken nuggets, but they're not bad.

      over 2 years ago

      RoleMommy

      Grossed out by the whole chicken nugget thing so we just buy our nuggets from Trader Joe's or sing la la la and don't think about it. It still tastes good....yuk!

      over 2 years ago

      Linda

      Are there any chicken nuggets that are healthy?

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      We Rated 12 frozen or refrigerated nuggets made of chicken and soy. You'll never guess what rose to the top!

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Hi Brandie! Here's the link: http://tinyurl.com/2bs4lu8

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      It's on the sidebar, right here -> :)

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      I didn't read it - can you link?

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 26 comments
    • so what did everyone think of chicken nugget article from consumer reports? did you read?
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Honestly? I love going to Target or Container Store and stocking up on what they have.

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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Those are great. Thanks so much Tricia!

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      Laurie

      I agree - I love my freezer - you can see why if you purchase Jeanne's book. It is a big savings on busy nights or for quick lunches.

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      I do primarily use plastic or throw away foil pans. Others use their regular pans and line them - here are some suggestions & links - http://onceamonthmom.com/works-for-me-wednesday-freezing-containers/

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      I love the idea of freezer cooking. I tried it once in December - but I hate, hate hate using plastic to store food in (yes, I am one of those moms LOL!). So is that what you primarily use or do you have stainless steel/glass containers that you use and can recommend?

      over 2 years ago
    • onceamonthmom 5 comments
    • I, obviously, freezer cook so that I don't have to "think" about meals during the week. . .saves me on so many days!
      over 2 years ago
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      Nicole Bohorad

      sounds wonderful!

      over 2 years ago
    • HeatherS 1 comment
    • Baked Ziti 1 box ziti noodles 1 jar prepared spaghetti sauce 1 8 oz tub of ricotta cheese 1 egg 1 TBL fresh parsley chopped 1/4 tsp nutmeg salt and pepper to taste 1 package shredded mozzarella cheese 1/4 cup packaged shredded parmesan cheese 4 cubes Jack's Harvest Yummy Bunny Carrot Cubes melted Preheat oven to 350 Boil noodles for 10 mins, drain While noodles are cooking combine ricotta, egg, parsley, nutmeg and salt and pepper. Add the Jack's Harvest carrot cubes to your sauce, then pour some sauce to coat the bottom of your baking dish Stir cooked noodles into the cheese mixture with the remaining sauce Put in baking dish and cover with mozzarella and a sprinkle of oregano and bake covered in foil for 30 mins. Remove foil and bake another 10 mins or until the cheese is melted! Double this recipe for two dinners!
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      I am intimidated by Martha. Then get upset if spend ALL day making somethign that doesn't taste like it was that difficult or complicated.

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      I love this idea - every once in a blue moon I will get a complicated Martha Stewart recipe out just for kicks, but for the most part, I am all about the 30 minutes or less recipes.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Great idea for a cook book. And can I just say my most favorite and most-used cookbooks come from church (or other group) fund-raisers. You know you're getting that person's favorite meal most of the time and it's so good!!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I just am always intimidated by long recipes with complicated ingredients. I want things that can be done in 30 minutes, tops.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Great idea for a book!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 5 comments
    • thanks, Heather. You may have to add that my site .. I'm looking for mom recipes. Think it would be great to do a book of ALL mom recipes from REAL moms like us that live the crazed life trying to juggle it all -- yet also feed our families in a healthy way.
      over 2 years ago
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      Brandie

      I only felt comfortable experimenting with them in the last few years. My poor husband, I don't think I hardly touched spices the first few years we were married. Now we are always running out! It's amazing what a dash of this and a pinch of that will do for something!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      love the paprika addition. I think we all need to experiment more with our spices.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Paprika - if you are breading them & cooking in the oven (which is what I do). I think paprika is the key - not too much but not too little. It makes a huge difference to me LOL!

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      *sigh* glad it is not just me!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I agree. I never could "Deep fry" them the same crusty way.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      why is it that my homemade chicken fingers never work, no matter what I do?

      over 2 years ago
    • onceamonthmom 6 comments
    • My son will ONLY eat Tyson Honey Battered chicken sticks without fussing - tried making my own but NO GO! ugh.
      over 2 years ago
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    • onceamonthmom 0 comments
    • I guess I need to try and find a honey battered chicken stick (homemade) to try out on him!
      over 2 years ago
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      Laurie

      We also used to love to do tacos - offer corn or whole wheat tortillas, the ground meat seasoned - then put out all kinds of condiments. Salsa, sliced avocados, diced tomatoes, diced onions, lettuce, grated cheese - taco bars are also super fun...kids assemble themselves

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Great idea Dawn. I LOVE soups. It's been the BEST way to get my picky eating daughter to eat her carrots and peas (in chicken soup).

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      pureed soups are easy to make - cook veggies in water or stock, puree, season, add a bit of milk or cream. Favorite is carrot-ginger soup. 1 bunch carrots + 3 cups stock, 2 bay leaves, ginger to taste. Cook until tender, puree, thin with orange juice. So yummy!!

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      Oh, paninis sound yummy!

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      Not just trying to pimp out my site all the time. But I really do find that freezing meals, especially easy, no-cook ones and then cooking them (usually in slow cooker, is so easy). Here are some great ones for non-cooks: http://onceamonthmom.com/once-a-month-mom-no-cook-recipes/

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      Paninis are great and so easy. Just get cold cuts, cheeses, and whatever else you think your kids would like - have them put their sandwiches together and you can press them and have dinner in a sec!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 6 comments
    • What are other easy idea for non-cooks? Hamburgers! Sloppy joes! (a "Sister" to hamburger) Meatloaf! Spaghetti! Stir-fry! Quesadillas!
      over 2 years ago
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      Nicole Bohorad

      Fish is so versatile b/c it cooks so quickly! bread it, saute it with olive oil, steam it, make sandwiches, kabobs, use egg, spices a little mayo and bread/panko crumbs and make salmon burgers! you can even use healthy canned salmon!

      over 2 years ago

      Nicole Bohorad

      there's also a lunch punch sandwich cutter and fun placemats to add!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      It's all about making a FUN PRESENTATION to sandwiches. Put out different kinds of breads, meats, toppings, cheeses in bowls with diff kinds of mustards, mayor, spreads. Pickles. Salad. Potatoes. Chips. It's different and fun.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      We do a lot on the stove too - my kids actually like them best just on the stove cooked in lemon juice with some Mrs. Dash on them. So easy - but I would over cook them when I was first cooking (soggy fish anyone? Ugh) and never add enough flavoring to them.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      grilled chicken is so good and versatile. Good the next day cold. YUM!

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      This is my favorite (and I use it with more than just flounder) http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Flavorful-Flounder/Detail.aspx It's what I cook almost every time someone comes over and everyone raves about it!!!

      over 2 years ago

      Laurie

      Sandwich bars are super fun - it's all about presentation - go Brandie I'm with you "go all out"

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      Brandie - care to share some of those recipes? I need help with fish!

      over 2 years ago

      rockandrollmama

      Sandwiches! I love it. Totally need to work on that.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      When we first started eating fish, I never knew what to do with it either. It was bland and boring. I've gotten better by experimenting with different recipes - thank goodness!! LOL!

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      We do the sandwiches ... my kids call it subway night - but we go all out - different meats, different cheeses, tomatoes, cucumbers, pickles, mayo, etc, etc. We get the sandwich rolls from the bakery counter and make our own. It is seriously one of my kids favorite dinners!

      over 2 years ago

      RoleMommy

      My family tells me I'm the best chicken maker - next to my mom. However, I stink at making fish. You can't be good at everything.

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      I'm giggling at the "non-cook" name...once you master these great recipe suggestions, you'll be an awesome cook!!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 13 comments
    • Other non-cook ideas: grilled chicken..you can't mess that up. At home salad and sandwich bar. Wraps! Sometimes just mixing up breads can make a difference and even get a picky eater to eat!
      over 2 years ago
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      Deborah

      We haven't done candles in a while...thanks for the reminder.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      We do candles almost every night - it is nice. And we have cloth napkins, which makes it seem more formal. I need place mats though. Don't have those, but think it would add to the mood a lot too!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I say THINK like your kid's grade school teacher. Make it FUN by proclaiming UPSIDE down day! or having a picnic on floor. Or putting nice spread or fun decorations on dinner table. Dressing it up like a restaurant with candles. Anything to be a bit different..and then tell kids because it's "Try Anything" day, they HAVE to taste something new.

      over 2 years ago

      rockandrollmama

      We had pancakes and bacon the other night!

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      My family loves breakfast for dinner. I do, too. As that's the one thing my HUSBAND can make well:)

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      My husband would agree but i am not a huge breakfast fan. Which means it rarely gets made for dinner, to his dismay.

      over 2 years ago

      Laurie

      Yep - breakfast for dinner is good - We are very big on easy frittata here - use whatever leftover vegies on hand, squash, spinach, swiss chard, asparagus, a couple of eggs, milk, cheese...pour into a pyrex dish - pop in the oven & voila dinner - just add salad and crusty bread.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Oh yes, breakfast for dinner is like the greatest night ever in our house!!

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      We did breakfast dinner when I was a kid a million years ago and still love to do that at least once a week for my kids

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 9 comments
    • Kabobs are also easy and great. As are omlettes -- breakfast for dinner is my mantra. Add some fruit to cereal, frittata, waffle and you're good to go. Anyone else agree?
      over 2 years ago
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      juliepippert

      I'm eating spinach salad and eggplant. Hey just thought -- both have sauce I made right now.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I know. Talking/typing about food makes you hungry.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Me too! I had a snack before starting but am STARVED!

      over 2 years ago
    • onceamonthmom 3 comments
    • Whose idea was it to schedule talk on food DURING lunch? I'm HUNGRY! :)
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      Becki

      I have a similar recipe that calls for dill, and lemon juice instead of wine. It's awesome.

      over 2 years ago

      rockandrollmama

      Em, that sounds SOOO good!

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Oh - we could do that over rice and then the whole family could eat it!!! Yum!!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I also feel lucky my kids eat/like shrimp. Of course it took dousing it with sweet sauces for a while before they changed their tune.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      This sounds delicious and VERY easy. Thanks!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I soo love shrimp and am soo upset about oil spill (topic for another session) as sure shrimp prices will go up.

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      yummy

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      yummy

      over 2 years ago
    • Emily 8 comments
    • Here's a family favorite recipe that's super easy. Shrimp with Feta. Saute half an onion, chopped. Add a large can of chopped tomatoes, a tablespoon of oregano and 1/2 cup of white wine. Cook down for 15 minutes or so. Add 1/2 pound of shrimp (and up to a whole pound). Saute for a few minutes until cooked. Take pan off heat and add 3/4 cup of chopped feta. Stir. Serve over pasta or rice or just with bread and salad. (You can add artichoke hearts too - yum.) Great for parties too.
      over 2 years ago
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    • onceamonthmom 0 comments
    • And, of course, there is a whole freezer section in Jeanne's book with some great tips!
      over 2 years ago
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      Laurie

      According to in-house Food Scientist, Erin Kamei - it should be fine to freeze then turn to bread crumbs...though I do usually make the crumbs then freeze.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Bread crumbs are so easy to make too! You can definitely freeze bread too. That's how my 7yo's bread is. She is the only one eating it and it goes bad super fast - in fact, we buy it in the freezer - I don't many places who sell GF bread fresh (at least around here) because it goes bad soooo quickly. It's all frozen.

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Can you freeze the bread and make bread crumbs with it later or does it taste better with fresh (er) bread?

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I agree. SAVE that bread!

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      Definitely! And homemade breadcrumbs from leftover sour dough or Italian bread are a great way to stretch your budget, too -- toast them up in a skillet with oil, garlic, salt and pepper and you've got your own seasoned breadcrumbs.

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 5 comments
    • My go-to easy peasy dinner is my mustard chicken. soak chicken breasts in mustard (sometimes I add white wine and/or little bit of water), put in fridge for an hour (or more), then coat with bread crumbs and put in oven for 20/25 minutes and viola! dinner. I think Dawn told me once that mixing up bread crumbs can add to the meal as well. Panko crumbs or a different kind of mustard can slightly change the flavor and get you out of your dinner rut.
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      Deborah

      The warning was constant. When he said 5 he meant 7:30. 6 meant 8:30. I caught on.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Oh, I don't think there would be permanent damage, just a bad night if I withheld dinner from them LOL! Sounds like you had warning when hubs would be home late so you could adjust that after school snack. When my husband's late, it's usually a call between 5 and 6 to tell me. Last night he called at 6:15 to tell us he'd be late (umm yeah, since on time is 6 I kind of already knew that). Sigh. His job isn't predictable at all and I hate that.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Aw Sue, I love that.

      over 2 years ago

      Sue Kirchner

      When we are really having a bad day and need some positive energy, we go around the table and ask what they like most about each person in the family. It especially works when the kids are fighting and need to be reminded of why we love each other.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      I would give them a filling snack (probably more like a small dinner, after school). I did do it when they were really young too. For the most part, I don't see any permanent damage.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      We eat together too, but I don't hold dinner if my husband is going to be late. My kids would probably turn on me and start eating furniture if they had to eat. They can last until about 6:30, but if we eat any later than that, it's kind of fiasco - they get too hungry, too crabby, etc. Deborah - did you do it when they were younger so they are used to it or do you give them snacks to tide them over? I imagine maybe my 10 year old could survive, but the 7 and 4 year old. It would make for a very bad evening if they didn't eat before 6:30 LOL!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I also LOVE talking about the past. What they were like at age X, Y,Z. Plus what I was like at age X, Y, Z and what their dad was like. I also like asking, who do you think is our goofiest family member? or talk about favorite family trips.

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      Okay a previous chat here with Ellen Galinsky - her book Mind in the Making has lots of great ideas for conversation *and* it helps build the seven life skills. Just saying! lol

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      We eat together every night possible. If my husband is away on business, it will just be the three of us, but I've been known to hold dinner for "dad" and then serve lasgana and say, "now finish up--it's past bedtime". It's THAT important to me. LOL

      over 2 years ago

      Becki

      We always ask, "What number was your day?" on a scale of one to ten. Once they give the number, they're usually willing to talk about what made it that way.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      We always just chat. It's so funny - now the kids will ask (even the 4 year old) "So, dad, how was your day?" and dad answers then they ask me, then they ask each other. It totally cracks me up to hear my 4 year old "So, mom, how was your day today?" I love it!

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Ask questions. Not necessarily, "how was your day?" But, "if you could.....?" or "how would you....?" We also love to list our favorite....everything. Ice cream flavors, days of the week, cartoon characters, places to visit, best sandwich EVAH, and the like. Tell stories, about when your kids were babies, about YOUR day, about the funniest thing you've ever seen....just engage. :)

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Sometimes I ask what's the funniest thing that happened that day. Doesn't always work - not the best question on the days they're taking the state tests ...

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Also, because we make it pretty much a habit to eat together most nights, there really isn't a lack of conversation. The boys know that this is what we do as a family, and we just do it. I think if you make it a regular occurrence, it all begins to flow naturally after a while.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      After saying grace, we always begin dinner with stating one thing that we were grateful for that day. Could be "I didn't have any homework" to "I'm just glad we're all at home tonight." Sometimes, that sparks conversation itself.

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      Mine is only 21 months so our conversations tend to center around what is walking by the kitchen window when we are eating. . . ;)

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      I always ask my daughter what her favorite part of her day was, instead of "what did you do in school today?"

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      I think one key is to not make dinner a formal "This is no officially our time to talk" kind of meal. Just BE together, as a family, eating and talk. Ask about their day, tell them about yours, if they don't want to share theirs. My husband and I do this all the time with our boys and it gets them to tell funny stories about their days, when we do it first

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 18 comments
    • what about dinner conversation? should we talk about how to draw your kids out and get them chatting and sharing with you?
      over 2 years ago
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      juliepippert

      Oh awesome, yes, DIY meals are very popular here. Actually, we always have tortillas, black beans, and shredded cheese on hand. And salsa, And diced tomatoes and chiles. It's Texas. I think it's required. ;)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I keep tortillas in my fridge at ALL times. ALWAys something you can stuff them with.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Yum, yum, yum. We're having this tonight.

      over 2 years ago

      Laurie

      Yep - you got it Deborah!

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Always a hit and you can feed a crowd or in my case a grown husband, 15 year old boy and 9 year old boy and me.

      over 2 years ago

      cararolinson

      we do the same, in fact we use a LOT of tortilla's period. if we're grilling flank steak, we'll grill then slice it and put it on a tortilla with toppings. same goes for chicken sometimes.

      over 2 years ago

      Becki

      Deborah, I have so stolen your burrito idea. Canned refried beans are a staple around here now.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      We do lots of tacos too. Corn tortillas for the win in our house. And yes, it took us about 9 months into our dd's diet to realize corn tortillas were safe for her LOL!

      over 2 years ago
    • Deborah 8 comments
    • Around here we love burrito/taco night where all the ingredients are spread out on the table so that everyone makes their own. I often use ground turkey or crumbled tofu. More often than not it's with refried bean or black beans. Everyone loves it and takes just enough time to make you think you've cooked;) diced tomatoes shredded lettuce or cabbage shredded cheese ( whatever your fam likes) sour cream or plain yogurt cilantro (if you like it....we love it) sliced limes diced jalapenos diced white onions avocado or guacamole fresh salsa tortillas Just to give you an idea.
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Dawn: you should post that article. Sounds very worthwhile!

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      Thanks! here is the link...there's a great recipe for seafood chowder at the end of the article, too: http://www.hybridmom.com/articles/features/5-steps-30-minute-or-less-meals

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Dawn, if you have a link to your article, by all means, post it here! Or recipes that couldn't fit there! The 30 minutes or less rule is critical!

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      I wrote an article about it recently, it was hard to cut my list down to fit the article, there turned out to be so many foods and possibilities!

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      That's a great tip!

      over 2 years ago
    • Dawn Viola 5 comments
    • There are actually lots of foods that take 30 minutes or less to cook -- The key is the cut veggies no larger than 1/2", and meat no thicker than 1/2", then get everything cooking at the same time, holding hot foods in the oven until the rest of the meal is ready.
      over 2 years ago
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      HeatherS

      Hmmm... I mean there is the obvious Angelina cause we favor each other so much (HAW!!!), but probably would end up being Jeaneane Garafalo at the end of the day.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Can I have more than one leading man. Oops. Did I just put that out there? yep. ::blush::

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Deborah: you're funny.

      over 2 years ago

      Laurie

      Good idea Dawn

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Dawn, in that case can I have Colin Firth?

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Kate Winslet. In my head I'm British;)

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      Can I play myself and pick the leading man instead? LOL!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 7 comments
    • I like to ask....if any movie star could play you in a movie, who would you like it to be? (fyi: I think Julia Louis Dreyfus --sp? could be ME!)
      over 2 years ago
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      Deborah

      Lovely, HeatherS.

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      Deborah - that is brilliant (thought you'd like the British reference)!

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      I'd lke a big open shower in that mud room too.

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      MUD ROOM - with lockers for each child complete with hooks for back pack and jackets, a shelf for their shoes and drawers for all the other stuff would make my life so much easier.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Ha, I want a mud room too. It might be a need as I've been making my boys strip in the garage before coming into the house!!! LOL

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      It's always interesting to hear what the kids have to say though. YOu learn a lot about the inner workings of their minds.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I'd love a mud room too. And a larger family room -- ours is tiny.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      I would love love love to have a mud room - and to get all the book bags, sports equipment, shoes, etc. out of my kitchen.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      My ktichen is long and narrow. I wish it were more square shape. And also bigger. It's tiny. We can't have the dishwasher and fridge open at the same time. Someone can't be at the sink and have another person open the oven at the same time. It makes it hard for more than one person to be in their working. Which is kind of a bummer.

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      I really need a larger, gourmet kitchen, desparately!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 10 comments
    • I also like to ask if they could change our house in one way/add an addition, what would they like? (I, of course, need more closet space!)
      over 2 years ago
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      Brandie

      Wah. I want Trader's Joe by me. Sadly, I'm not willing to drive the 45 minutes I would need to to get to one.

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      Trader Joe's turkey meatballs are the BOMB! And so easy, to make dinner - just add to jarred organic sauce and toss with whole wheat pasta - can't argue that meal, protein, carbs and veggies in one bowl PERFECT

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      And their sauces are great. With chicken or tofu and and bunch of veggies and cooked rice, and it actually tastes like you put some real effort in.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      LOVE that Mandarin Chicken. It's always in my freezer for post-softball game nights, or after a school concert.

      over 2 years ago

      Becki

      Trader Joe's Mandarin Chicken is always in our freezer for those nights where I just don't know what to make.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      They have the BEST frozen brown rice and jasmine rice! Delicious.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      They have frozen brown rice?!? OMG ... life changing.

      over 2 years ago
    • rockandrollmama 7 comments
    • I use trader joes frozen brown rice and frozen pastas for the days when even boiling water sound like too much.
      over 2 years ago
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      cararolinson

      Brandie - that's a great approach. often our little guy is finished but doesn't communicate it, we're all still eating or helping our other son and he starts to play and then gets quickly bored.... thus the running away with messy hands. it's one thing to be a messy eater but he's actually just playing and getting messy to make a mess. he actually tells us, he's making a mess then squeals with delight.... then takes off like a flash... he's a quick little bugger :)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      messiness part of being a kid. I have to say -- as the mom of teens -- I look back and think it's cute. I think it's great he's having FUN with his food!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I think that's a great tactic, Brandie. It's about respecting YOUR rules.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      My 4 year old is almost always the first to leave the table. I don't sweat it. We let him go. But, he can't come back and tease his sisters or beg them to play with him (which he's fond of doing). If we respect his needs enough to let him leave the table, then he needs to respect our needs and allow us to finish dinner.

      over 2 years ago

      cararolinson

      oh no, so this doesn't go away anytime soon, our 2 yr old can't keep still... problem is, he's a horribly messy eater... so whatever we're eating makes it to his chair, the wall, the side of the table, and where ever he runs to since he KNOWS he's supposed to be in his chair....

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I also think ignoring the behavior, like you do, Becki, helps. Though if it's a real bother, I think you DO have to say it's this or THAT with consequences.

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      That's my 5 yo. I admit, on a daily basis we don't force everyone at the table for the same length of time -- I mean, we're all different ages, stages, and types. We just ask to be together for a bit of quality time and ask to be excused. Our expectation is just "sit at table and be good dinner companion while eating." Sometimes, my 8 yo, who can barely sit at school, is allowed to stand in her spot (we have a tall, bar height table). I loosened up on this when I realized even her school let her stand to do her work. The teacher said, what does it matter if she sits or stands as long as she's here, engaged, and doing her work.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Duct tape or crazy glue.....

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Again: I'm big into the NO GUILT thing. It's what works for YOUR family and what kind of message you want to impart to your kids. Maybe 4 is just too young for him to sit there. Maybe you say ok behavior for now,but when you're 5 or 6, this will stop as this is important to us and you WILL go to bed without dinner...or some other punishment.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      it's tough. It really depends on what kind of precedent you want to set. If you want to be strict, you have to tell him/her the groundrules. Set a timer. See if he can sit for longer than X minutes, explain that dinnertime a "special" time in your house and that it means a lot to you if he/she can stay without fidgeting. Crayons at table don't help, I'm guessing?

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      My kids circle the table like sharks, I just do like Becki and remind them to sit down - 1000 TIMES!

      over 2 years ago

      Becki

      My seven year old still puts on a dance routine during dinner...I'm considering duct tape. For the moment, we just keep reminding her to sit down.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      My eight year old has a hard time staying seated. Sometimes, it seems that if she's talking she has to be moving too.

      over 2 years ago
    • rockandrollmama 13 comments
    • What do you guys do when you have one kid who always wanders away from table? My 4 yr old is a mess!
      over 2 years ago
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      Emily

      Hope you're looking MAHvelous!

      over 2 years ago
    • rockandrollmama 1 comment
    • Kay at hairdressers hopping to go get rinsed, BRB ladies!:)
      over 2 years ago
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      HeatherS

      My friend Caroline ate them until- and I quote - she was "Thanksgiving Full!"

      over 2 years ago

      Nicole Bohorad

      that's great! I do this with fish and also use Panko bread crumbs!

      over 2 years ago

      cararolinson

      Heather - those sound GREAT! the sweet potato is an interesting ingredient!

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Wow, Heather - they even have flax seed in them. We're trying 'em!!!

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      That sounds great we also have a sneaky chef chicken nugget recipe that I have to make at least three batches of because they don't make it to the table otherwise with everyone picking as I cook them! http://www.jacksharvest.com/lipSmackinChickNuggets.html

      over 2 years ago
    • cararolinson 5 comments
    • i made a really easy dinner last night, when I asked my boys what they wanted they both said chicken nuggets... so instead I made chicken fingers. 1 egg and some milk to coat chicken, then 2 cups of french's fried onion things (not the healthiest option but works for a fast breading)... crushed. toss to coat and cooked in a non-stick skillet. I steamed some veggies and tossed together a salad AND made some honey mustard for some chicken dipping. let's just say, both boys had completely clean plates at the end of our meal. that hasn't happened in a LONG time!
      over 2 years ago
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      Becki

      Brandie, I will repost that recipe, soon. I miss being on the Motherhood so much!

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Sign me up for any food accidents that happen in your house!!! This sounds delicious - I love black beans in any form!

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      YUM, Love black bean soup more than anything. Another recipe to double/triple and freeze.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Becki - you need to share your recipe with the chicken and water chestnuts, maybe rice? I used to have it saved on here, but lost it. and I

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Love that tip. I ALWAYS re-decorate my kitchen while pureeing.

      over 2 years ago
    • Becki 5 comments
    • My favorite new accidental recipe for black bean soup: one can black beans with their liquid, one can refried black beans, one can chicken broth, plus chopped onion, celery, carrot, a teaspoon of cumin, two bay leaves, and a splash of sherry (for the soup, not the mom). Saute the onions in olive oil for a few minutes, dump in the broth, beans with liquid, and refried beans. Add the carrot and celery with the bay leaves and cumin. Simmer for about ten minutes, remove from the heat, and stir in the sherry. It's an accidental recipe because the original called for two cans of black beans, and removing to a blender to puree. But I only had one, plus the can of refried. What I found was that the refried gave the soup a nice thickness, the plain beans added texture, and no pureeing necessary. It was delicious, too.
      over 2 years ago
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      Laurie

      Absolutely - I rely on canned items, frozen food, and leftovers for those scrambled days. I always try to have some kind of extra veggies around, dry onions and garlic. It's amazing what you can pull together in a few minutes.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      I agree, Nicole. Family dinner should just happen as a natural occurrence, not have to be scheduled. You have to eat, and you have to eat as a family. At least most nights. I don think it should be up for discussion, or determined by a schedule.

      over 2 years ago

      Nicole Bohorad

      yes absolutely! it's now expected with my family so we don't even think of it being "Scheduled"!

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      I'm fortunate enough to have a 16-year-old son who is beginning to take an interest in cooking. I've been asking him to make a side dish for us before I get home. It's happened once or twice -- when he doesn't have activities -- but I'm planning to make this more of a regular thing.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Since I'm home all day, sometimes, if I know the evening will be rushed, I'll make dinner at 10am and throw it in the fridge. Then pull it out to heat it up. That's how my husband's granny does almost all her meals. She says mornings are quiet and afternoons can get too busy. I thought she was right on and do it as needed.

      over 2 years ago

      StephanieMoritz

      Agree, I think that is a great point - and so very true! It is a good reminder to prioritize and be sure that dinner is one of the priorities. I'm hoping to get some good ideas involving kids to make the meals or ones that are really fast so that I can still spend time with the kids before bed.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      It's not as if I've got it totally down pat, but I have a basic plan for dinner, because dinner is never an afterthought at my house. It's a key time for all of us to get together and talk and eat and share our days.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Definitely agree, Jeanne. Even though my boys are busy with softball and music, I make sure that we have dinner at home, even if it's soup. I make a basic plan on Sunday and have fall-backs in case full-out cooking isn't possible. We only do takeout on Fridays and even then, it's never fast food.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Totally AGREE. !20% or whatever percent is currently the one that I hear the sport guys use;)

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Agree. Agree 100% Not that I'm great at planning, but I so agree. And I also agree about overscheduling. I very much agree with that. Right now is our busiest time because of softball, but that's the only extra thing we have - softball. Some of the kids my girls play with are coming straight from gymnastics to practice and leave early to get to soccer. It wears me out hearing some of their schedules. No wonder so many people eat fast food so often - they don't leave enough time in their day for food!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      My big mantra has been: STOP overscheduling your kids and start SCHEDULING dinners together. Not that I'm saying you're overscheduling, Gayle (or anyone else). I'm just saying we're all great at organizing our kid's schedules, making our work deadlines, getting to this live talk on time...but we're often NOT great about making time for dinner/thinking about it/planning it..so that come 5:30/6 we're all staring at our fridges hoping something will pop out that looks like dinner. agree or disagree?

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I just think if we all PLAN to PLAN and stock our pantries with stuff that we KNOW we can throw together (as you obviously did with the soupfest, Gayle), then even with our crazy schedules we CAN get dinner on the table.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Great idea to layer in extra veggies into soups!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I think the trick here -- is sitting down Sunday, looking at your week and planning to plan so that Gayle, maybe you knew Monday night would be crazy and so had taken something out of the freezer beforehand. Though soup is a great option.

      over 2 years ago

      Nicole Bohorad

      That's a great idea! I do look at the salt content and pick the best-tasting, lowest salt versions, then I add in more vegetables and beans, even pasta or cut up grilled chicken.

      over 2 years ago

      StephanieMoritz

      Now, that sounds like my house! After getting home from work, it's hard to balance finding time to cook as I want to spend time with my kids. I rely a lot on canned soup and other quick meals. What do you do with your kids to get them involved with cooking?

      over 2 years ago
    • Gayle Williams 16 comments
    • Last night, we got in late, following a school concert. So what to have for dinner? We opened up a few different cans of Progresso and had a soup fest. Everyone loved it!
      over 2 years ago
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      StephanieMoritz

      FANTASTIC ideas!! Thank you to all of you!! Please keep them coming. I stuggle with trying to get good stuff into my lil guy while balancing just trying to get him to eat.

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Jeanne, I love that. So w/ indoor you mean things like herbs or cherry tomatoes?

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I also love the idea of growing an indoor or outdoor garden with them. It's another way to teach kids about what we eat and the process and involves them in a new and interesting way.

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      My kids as toddlers always loved whole wheat waffles (ie Eggos) with some cream cheese spread on them and some cut up melon. They LOVED that. Also cut up veggie burgers.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      LOVE the yogurt idea. I also resort to fun/different containers. Yogurt in an ice cream dish -- even with cone on top. Pasta in a mug. Kids love the "fun" of this. Kidas are also more apt to eat what they help with..so take them food shopping with you; invovle you with cooking, even if it's just throwing a hot dog in boiling water. Depending on their age, this helps.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      HeatherS, I sneak finely diced beets in my spaghetti sauce. It's the very secret ingredient. AND beets add that sweetness to cut the acidity of the tomatoes.

      over 2 years ago

      Nicole Bohorad

      At the worst, for my 2 1/2-yr old, if she won't eat anything, I resort to a healthy yogurt with tons of stuff in it - whatever she loves - crushed walnuts, flax seeds, fruits, whole grain cereal.

      over 2 years ago

      StephanieMoritz

      That's a GREAT idea! Thanks!! I try my best to sneak veggies and other good things into foods. Thanks!!

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      Pasta, pasta, pasta, it is amazing what you can hide in spaghetti sauce!

      over 2 years ago
    • StephanieMoritz 9 comments
    • I am inspired by your recipes! I have an extremely picky eater at home. Also, I struggle to find the time to cook after getting home. So, convenience is critical to me. What very quick, or no/limited cooking suggestions or go-tos do you rely on?
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Hi Kathleen. Love to know some pscyhology of children we might be missing here? What do you think about all these topics?

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Hi Kathleen, welcome!!

      over 2 years ago
    • Kathleen Cuneo 2 comments
    • Hi everyone! I'm happy to be joining the conversation.
      over 2 years ago
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      Emily

      Dawn, you should do it! You've pulled together such GOOD information!

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      Thanks - it was a very fun article to write. I'm thinking of expanding on it on my blog, adding cooking suggestions for the veggies, fruits and fish, too.

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Dawn, that article is GREAT! Thank you for posting it. The list of meats that cook fast, and ways to cook them fast is so helpful!

      over 2 years ago

      ThisFullHouse

      Thanks for the link, Dawn -- bookmarked to read later, around wine o'clock ;)

      over 2 years ago
    • Dawn Viola 4 comments
    • Here's the article I recently wrote on foods that cook in 30 minutes or less: http://www.hybridmom.com/articles/features/5-steps-30-minute-or-less-meals
      over 2 years ago
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      ThisFullHouse

      Just curious, thanks Gayle!

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      We had 31 boys and girls ages 6 to 17 test McDonald's Chicken McNuggets, which they loved. But we didn't test those for nutrition, fat, calories, etc. This study was focused on the nuggets you buy in a supermarket or store. Most of the kids preferred McNuggets, though they did like the Target and Bell& Evans brands, too.

      over 2 years ago

      ThisFullHouse

      What about [dare I even ask] fast food chicken nuggets? Were they ever tested?

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      Ugh, sodium and high fructose corn syrup -- so hard to avoid. Where are we on requiring to reduce sodium?

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Morningstar Farms Chik'n , a soy product, was Rated Good and costs about $1.12 per serving. However, it has about 600 mg of sodium per serving, so that's something to consider.

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      I'm just joining the conversation now so I don't know if this was discussed already - but one mistake I see parents making often (and that I made myself with my oldest child!) is catering to children's food requests. So if they want chicken nuggets, we always give them chicken nuggets.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      That means, they didn't much care for the taste of the Health is Wealth brand.

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      Did Morningstar Farms rate? That's all I have access to (easily) and they go over well with my kids. I think we've tried the Market Pantry ones too.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Health is Wealth brand did the best in terms of nutrition (got a Very Good Rating from us), and is also one of the lower choices in terms of sodium. however, our trained sensory panelists weren't crazy about it.

      over 2 years ago

      kdc521

      I would love to read that. My kid ate some chicken nuggets at school (instead of his packed lunch) and he had a very bad reaction. He also mentioned that another kid vomited after eating the chicken nugget lunch. Yikes.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Bell & Evans is one of the more costly brands, at $2.18 per serving.

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Gayle, What was the "healthiest" of the nuggets you tested?

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      The study is in the June issue of Consumer Reports, and you can also find it at http://tinyurl.com/2bs4lu8

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      We are all about chicken nuggets. The Bell & Evans is a fav. Expensive, though.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      We chose to test chicken nuggets because, well, in some houses -- in a LOT of houses -- it's all that some kids will eat. So why we're not suggesting that people make this a staple, it is something that is being served, so we'd like to help folks make the best choice.

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      Gayle - that's wonderful! Is the study published...what was the criteria?

      over 2 years ago

      ThisFullHouse

      Chicken fingers (and peanut butter) are about all my 8 year-old will eat...UGH!

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Hi, Emily! We actually tested chicken nuggets, rather than fingers, and we discussed it at length a little earlier, but in short, we tested 12 kinds of chicken and soy nuggets. No. 1 was Target's Market Pantry brand. No. 2: Bell & Evans breaded No. 3: Kirkland Signature Disney, available at Costco.

      over 2 years ago
    • Emily 18 comments
    • Gayle, we would LOVE to hear all about your chicken finger study and other studies in the works at Consumer Reports that might relate to our conversation here!!
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Me three. Great idea Deborah. And makes it easier for you. Now that my daughter is driving, I often make HER go pick up something for me.

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      I do too. Great idea on saving $$$ but getting a "take out" treat at the same time!

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      That's a great idea!

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Like the half-way route too! I never think of that!

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      What a GREAT idea, Deborah, I love this! It's a wonderful mindset to adopt...you can still order take out, but you don't have to buy the whole meal!

      over 2 years ago
    • Deborah 5 comments
    • We have lots of carry-out places around here. However, I want more control of what I'M eating and what my kids are eating. So sometimes, I'll just carry out our favorite chips and salsa from the local Mexican place or pick up the Greek salad from the diner. Then, I make the rest. I feel like I get a *treat* but have the control I'm lookin for, as well. Saves lots of $$$$ too.
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      I know....thanks!

      over 2 years ago

      JenSinger

      And by "you," I don't mean you Jeanne, but well, you know.

      over 2 years ago

      JenSinger

      Let them know I'm giving away your book at MommaSaid.net. Share your funny story and you could win: http://www.mommasaid.net/housewifeawards.aspx

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 3 comments
    • There are so many great conversations going on. I hope I'm hitting all the points you want to discuss. Am I missing anything? I'm open to any and all comments.
      over 2 years ago
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      juliepippert

      Hi Kim!

      over 2 years ago

      cararolinson

      Hi Kim!

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Hi Kim! Welcome - so glad to see your smiling face!

      over 2 years ago
    • ClumberKim 3 comments
    • Finally here...and trying to catch up on all the great conversation!
      over 2 years ago
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      Nicole Bohorad

      Thanks, Gayle! What are your thoughts on Agave, espec. for kids?

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Thats sad :( Will they rebuild it ever?

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Please do get a copy, or become an online subscriber! June alone - with reviews of sweeteners and chicken nuggets - is a gold mine, not to mention the rest of the year!

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      Brandie, a hurricane took my library so now we have to go one town inland. Oh the horror lol at me and my shock at having to go more than 5 miles anywhere lol. Anyway my FIL subscribes to CR so he's my source. I'll look for June.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Yes, the Sweetener piece is in the June issue of Consumer Reports, pages 8-9. We looked at Agave, Aspartame,Saccharin, Stevia, Sucralose and Xylitol.

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      We didn't Rate the sweeteners, but did test them in coffee, lemonade and baked cakes. What we found about Stevia is that it had a bitter taste in drinks and in cake. It's also kind of costly: 3 to 12 cents per penny's worth of sugar.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Julie - me either - but I know my library carries Consumer Reports, so grab the right issue next time you are there and then you can read it?

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      Gayle, I popped over, curious about stevia (it's stevia leaf in the tea) and what I tend to use" agave. But I can't read the report. :(

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Gayle that is great. I am so confused by sweeteners - the stevias and other "naturals" - or are they? I'll check it out for sure. Thank you!

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      If you're curious about Consumer Reports' recent tests of sweeteners, check out our report from the June 2010 issue: http://tinyurl.com/296xh6x

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      It's Yogi green tea blueberry: http://www.amazon.com/Yogi-Blueberry-Herbal-Supplement-16-Count/dp/B000CMF196 It's all natural and organic, and the green tea and blueberry are good for antioxidants and eyesight. It helps me feel full and not crave snacks in the afternoon, also a little caffeine and ginseng perk. It has hibiscus and stevia so I don't add anything sweet to it -- just drink it as it is!

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      I wish you all would (and could)!

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      And, yes, I do want blueberry iced tea - and I want to know how you make the tea as well! SHARE????!!!

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      Ok, so should we all just come over to your house for lunch???

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Save some for me - I'm running to get some bread to go with it!

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      I'd be happy to share! :) Want some of my blueberry tea (iced, of course) with? :)

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Yummy! Can I have a bite?

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      mmmmm.

      over 2 years ago
    • juliepippert 18 comments
    • My fave quick red sauce (eating it right now, made it in 5 mins): Plain tomato paste or sauce Splash balsamic vinegar Fresh minced garlic (to taste, I add about 3 tsp) (am garlic crazy) Oregano Put over food (eggplant and spinach for me today, with some ricotta) Heat and eat. That's my lunch right now.
      over 2 years ago
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      Brandie

      I've never seen Mommy Dearest! I've heard of it, and thankfully the only thing my parents were like that mom in the movie was (apparently) serving dinner to me as breakfast if I didn't eat it!)

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      GREAT point, Kathleen!!!!

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      You're right Jeanne. If we want our kids to have healthy weight management throughout their lives, we need to let them learn what it feels like to be "hungry" and "full" based on their own internal cues, not just because we adults tell them they should be full, etc.

      over 2 years ago

      ClumberKim

      I popped over to Ellyn's website for a minute. Brilliant.

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      Brandie, didn't they have a scene in Mommie Dearest where she gets her dinner from the night before for breakfast? I'm just sayin'!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Kids appetites ebb and flow. Ellyn also talks about how we all "worry" -- sometimes obsessively over whether our kids are eating "enough." We all know when we are hungry or not. So if a child isn't hungry for dinner one night, that's fine. Don't push it. Similarly, don't freak out if he eats the kitchen sink the next night.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Kathleen, what you just said is SO interesting. The process of accepting new foods before even trying them can be such a hurdle sometimes.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Oh Deborah, trust me, as a parent you could force them to eat things they don't want to. As in, not serving any other food until what they didn't eat is eaten. As a kid, you'll eventually cave and eat it. Even if it's broccoli from over 24 hours ago. But once you leave your house, you might not tough broccoli for a long time because you've associated it with that and mentally it will take time to get over it. And no, I don't recommend doing that at all. Furthermore, when you've been offered the same freaking piece of broccoli for dinner, then breakfast, then lunch, then dinner again, it tastes horrible. And so you will think that is how broccoli always tastes.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      We have a rule that if it's a new food everyone has to take a couple of bites. Over time, the foods aren't so new and they get accepted. It's my way of getting beyond the battleground for my picky eater. The other will eat anything. Funny how two kids can respond to food so differently!

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      I think I like Ellyn!

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      It's also important to recognize that learning to like new foods is a process. Some kids naturally do better with it than others. Part of the process is just seeing others eat the food, smelling the food, and accepting it on the table. Putting it in your mouth and swallowing is the last step and can sometimes take many exposures.

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      The "no thank you" bite can work fine with some kids, but I think you have to be careful with that. With some kids' temperaments you will be setting yourself up for a battle.

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      I think my approach is similar: I cook, you eat, or starve. LOL! {kidding...sort of}

      over 2 years ago

      cararolinson

      I agree with this approach. We make a wholesome meal and unless we're having dinner guests or preparing something spicier than usual (this doesn't happen often) then I don't make something different for the kids. Once it's prepared and on the table, it's their job to eat it. if they don't, then that's their choice. we usually encourage a little bit, but we never force the issue. As long as they have a few bites and some milk. I'm ok with it. which usually happens on it's own without my encouragement. I know there are times when I'M not very hungry, so I'm sure there are times when they aren't. right?

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Ellyn's writings can be found online and are REALLY something to think about.

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Oh I have lived the "curse of the short order cook" and then some.

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      It is sad because sometimes what he is asking for is healthy like more grapes and I am asking him to eat his chicken first, BUT it really is more of an issue of who is in charge in these cases. He wants to test us. I give in more easily when he is requesting healthy food, I must admit.

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      Definitely agree with that Jeanne. I think we have to be careful about being "food police" while still being mindful of offering "healthy" food. It's also important to honor both your own and your kids' preferences. Doesn't mean that they get their favorites all the time! But does mean that they get them sometimes.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Brandie. I love how you stick to your guns. I think we should all be a bit more old-fashioned in our approach to dinner. The options: take it or leave it. And at 8 p.m. the kitchen is closed!!!!

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Like this. My kids have to take a small "no thank-you" helping of things that are not a favorite. We all have foods that aren't appealing. So, I've never forced ( how do you do that, anyway?) and have encouraged them to re-try a food every 6 months to see how their tastebuds have changed. It's worked for us.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      It's all really about feeding your family without becoming a short order cook. And also getting your family to pitch in and help.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Yeah, I don't want dinner to be a battle too. I don't often sweat it if they don't eat what I've served (that said, don't expect me to get up and make you something else either). We do often ask the kids to take at least one bite - just to try it. But we don't make them clean their plate. When I was growing up, if I didn't eat it for dinner, guess what I got for breakfast? Yep. The dinner I didn't eat. I didn't appreciate that much and so avoid situations even similar to that at my table.

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      Our policy, even with the 21 month old is that he eats what he has on his plate first (or at least try a bite if it is new) before he gets seconds of whatever it is he is wanting. If he doesn't eat what we are eating, he doesn't eat. But he still has to sit at the table while we eat. He can read a book, etc, but he must stay there. It's working pretty well. He got his leftover dinner the other night right before bed when he decided he was hungry. Interesting what they will eat when they are hungry.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Some of Ellyn's comments include regularly offering "forbidden" foods (such as sweets and chips), making mealtimes pleasant (no fighting), offering plenty of food choices at mealtimes, and treating yourself to a night off from cooking (popcorn and cocoa in front of tv is ok). Even the most ho-hum family meal is better than no family meal at all, she says.

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      Oh I'm a pretty mean mom -- my kids say so all the time. So at least I've got the strict and teach them responsibility thing down. Actually, it surprises me every time their teachers or caretakers comment on how capable and independent they are. Shouldn't they be? I think so!

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      I think our motivation as parents is to make our kids happy, and we worry about their health. But we end up inadvertently teaching them poor habits and social skills by catering to them.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I quote Ellyn Satter a LOT in my book. I think what she talks about is critical. Our generation of parents bend over backwards to accommodate our kids. We need to be a bit stricter and teach them responsiblity.

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      It really stops a lot of the battles over food if you can approach it this way.

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      Interesting. We are a little more trough-style here, and I encourage the kids to make or help make the food, too -- find they enjoy it, feel proud, and are more likely to eat it that way. Is it a regular schedule thing or not? We can vary a bit on the when, as well, here.

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      My pediatrician has always ascribed to that theory. Can't make yourself crazy and I don't want to turn my table into a battleground. Dinner is our time to regroup, share and reconnect, not argue about what they will or will not eat!

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      Yes. It's your responsibility to make good choices about what you food you offer to your kids and to provide a mealtime structure, but that's where your job ends.

      over 2 years ago

      ClumberKim

      I am trying very hard to put this in place in my house. Having trouble getting my husband on board. So, so tired of the dinnertime battles.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Kathleen, will you say more about this? It's such an interesting concept!

      over 2 years ago

      ClumberKim

      Is that where it's my responsibility to put good food in front of my kids. It's their responsibility to eat it. Or not. ??

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      What she says basically is this: Parents are responsible for the what, where, and when of feeding (e.g., what you make available, the structure of where and when you have meals). Children are responsible for whether or not they'll eat and how much they'll eat. Sounds so simple, but it can be really hard to implement. I wish I had known about that model myself when my kids were littler.

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Oh please explain!

      over 2 years ago
    • Kathleen Cuneo 36 comments
    • Not sure if this has already been mentioned, but I think understanding Ellyn Satter's division of responsibility in feeding is crucial for raising successful eaters. Does anyone know what I mean by that? I'm happy to explain.
      over 2 years ago
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      MelissaChapman

      OMG-- this is why your book is the ONLY cookbook I have actually read:)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Melissa: pasta is my fave. top with tomato sauce. Butter sauce. Oil and garlic. Go "crazy" and add chicken or chopped tomatoes. Dinner. Quesadillas. A tortilla shell. Cheese. Heat it up. Dinner. Soup. Heat it up. Soup. Add a sanwich. Turkey/bread, some cheese (even grilled cheese is good). Dinner. Grilled chicken. Baked (microwaved) potato. Dinner. Beef tacos. Or use store-bought rotiiserie chicken. put in shell. MAYBE add lettuce. Dinner. Baked potatoes. Stuff with veggies or chicken or meat sauce or make like a pizza with sauce and cheese or for picky eater, simply add butter. Dinner. Frozen Trader Joe pizza (my fave). Dinner. Go "crazy" and top with store-bought cut up chicken or frozen veggies (or steam in a bag veggies). Dinner. MY best non cook meals.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      As I said before, I also have tons of great things in my freezer ready to pull out. Like thinking about your clothes for the next day, you have to think about what you're going to serve/defrost for dinner AT LEAST the day before. Its' when you have NO idea that you run into trouble/stress yourself out (and your family).

      over 2 years ago

      MelissaChapman

      I'm curious- what are your favorite three ingredient dishes ( you know being a non-cook and all!)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I keep a running tab of ingredients and recipes in my computer. Nothing fancy. But do plot my week by generally plotting out four or five meals (one night is always leftovers; one night is generally pick up/take out). It's just such a load off to know dinner is taken care of.

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      I plan my meals out a week at a time. The first step is always checking the calendar to see what the week looks like and take it from there.

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      I sometimes send myself quick emails with dinner ideas the night before, so I won't have to think about it any longer.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Jeanne, what's your favorite approach to meal planning? I need to start doing this!

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      I like that idea, Jeanne. I do store recipes, but honestly, those aren't the things I make during the week. I can't deal with recipes Monday-Friday. They get saved for weekends, when I'm happy to spend a little more time preparing something special for my family.

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 9 comments
    • Also when I talk planning, I want women to know I'm not talking excel sheets. It can be storing ideas/recipes in your computer and just printing out. Or it can be using index cards with a recipe/name of dish on it/then shuffling deck, posting on fridge for that day.
      over 2 years ago
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      Brandie

      Oh definitely I do ask for their input. Also, on your birthday - which is your day - whatever you pick for dinner is dinner that night. You have complete control over the meal and no parent will veto your choice. They always joke they'll pick candy and ice cream, but you know what, they never actually have!!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Yes. At least. Be happy for small steps.

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      Yeah but they still won't eat it at home lol but hey at least they will eat it!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      That's what I'm saying. Put them with their friends/peers/neighbors and they WILL try new foods.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      I need to do this.

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      My kids *will not eat soup* at home especially vegetable soup. I love soup, love it! But! They are sort of freerange on our street/cul-de-sac b/c of so many kids their age, and we often have guests for eating and same goes for neighbors. My kids ate homemade vegetable soup at a friend's house!!! Two helpings each! The conversation I had with the mom/neighbor was: Vegetable soup? Vegetable soup! Really? Really! Two helpings each! Wow. I know! Who knew!

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      That's so key, Jeanne! Kids are more likely to eat what they plan and/or cook {and grow, too -- gardens are so much fun!}

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      You may have said this, but do you have ideas on meal planning for the week involving everyone?

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      I like the idea of inviting your children's friends to dinner. It's a great way to share your customs and culture with others, and to learn more about your kids' friends.

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 9 comments
    • I also think INVOLVING your family -- hubby/kids into the discussion about what they want to eat and giving them ideas/choices is key. Have the kids select a day that is "theirs" to come up with a dinner plan. And, as I mentioned in an earlier post, have them invite their friends over. They'll talk more..and hopefully eat more as their friend may be more open to trying/eating new foods.
      over 2 years ago
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      Becki

      Amen. How else will they learn it's not just my job?

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      ROFL!! I don't tend to bend over backwards for the kids. I'm the mean mom that makes them :::gasp::: help around the house! (okay, only like 3 people have ever given me a hard time about that and for the life of me I can't figure out why?!?!?).

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      I posted this on my blog last year about involving kids in the kitchen from a developmental perspective. I'm a big proponent of involving kids in all aspects of the process. http://dinnertogether.blogspot.com/2009/06/involving-kids-in-kitchen-developmental.html

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Again, I don't think this is something that has to be taught. You're part of a family and the family works together. So you all have jobs to do. Not saying that it's always that easy, but to me, the theory of chores is pretty simple: Help your family. period.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      That's what I'm saying. We ALL did growing up (most of us anyway...) but today we bend over backwards and sideways for our kids.....we have to start giving them more chores and responsibilites.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Oh yes - all over this one! My kids have to set the table - that includes getting everyone's drinks (and yes, you ask politely when you finding out what everyone wants to drink!) and getting out salad dressings/butter/serving spoons/etc. They also empty the dishwasher when it's clean. When you leave the table, you have to walk your plate/cup/silverware to the sink. And you may be called back to help clear other things from the table.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      We had to do this growing up and I'm thankful now. We all need to know how to take care of ourselves and our things, including around meals .. training for life.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Great point!!!!

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      All my kids know to pick up their plates and bring them to the sink and it is high time my 11 and 7 year olds started loading the dishwasher

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Most definitely. My boys definitely know how to set a table, after many nights of practice.

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 10 comments
    • I also think kids should be invovled with cleaning up, setting table, food prep, serving -- again: all age appropriate. It shouldn't just be YOUR job!
      over 2 years ago
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      Becki

      Even though my daughter is a picky eater, exposing her to other stuff works. Her new favorite snack? Individual packs of toasted seaweed squares. And now the other kids who see her eating it at school want to try it.

      over 2 years ago

      foodietots

      Good advice! When someone tells me their kid only eats x, y and z, I tell them not to worry as long as that's not all they're offering. Persistence pays off. (And hi, Colleen from FoodieTots.com joining in late.)

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      ROFL - I was a picky eater when hubs and I were married. Even my mother-in-law (in a good way) teases me now about how many more foods I eat. So, even if your picky eater doesn't outgrow it by 18, don't fret!!

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      Definitely don't give up! My oldest is my pickiest. She's now 14 and eats lots of things that she never would have touched before.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Never thought I'd live to see the day!!!!

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      I wish I ate a ton of spicy foods when I was pregnant - maybe my picky eater would like them more now! We'll keep trying ....

      over 2 years ago

      juliepippert

      My 5 yo is on PB&J kick -- because she can make it herself, lol Little Miss Independent Love the story about your 16 yo. HOPE! (and funny)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      that is so true. It takes up to about 7-l0 times of "trying" for a child to finally "like" something. do NOT give up after only ONE time!

      over 2 years ago
    • Deborah 8 comments
    • For all of you struggling with your picky eater, can I tell you just keep offering good food. Have them try. And re-try foods. Cook what you like. Believe it or not kids like all kinds of food. You know what kids in India eat? Indian food. Kids in Japan? Japanese food. You get the idea. My almost 16 year old son was picky. SO picky that he'd tell us he didn't like the smell of the food WE were eating. I can hardly keep food in the house. He eats everything. About a month ago he came home complaining about other kids that say they don't like something before they've tried it. REALLY? Hmmmm....gosh, I said, "that is annoying, isn't it?"
      over 2 years ago
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      onceamonthmom

      Cooper, I'm holding you to that! :)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Tricia: you're funny. My book is not a recipe book but a "how to" guide -- I think of it like a "Dummie's Guide to Dinner" so I don't take offense at suggesting great recipe books. In fact, the back of my book -- Resource area lists a ton of great websites and books - with my comments. I'm all about being HONEST and REAL!

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Tricia, I am so there! : )

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      Cooper, other than Jeanne's book, I *might* know a place you can find good recipes for that!

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Similarly - when we have left over night, each person in our family gets to pick which they want. So those nights can be fun - sometimes all five of us will have a completely different looking plate and sometimes we all pic the same thing LOL! You just never know. I think that helps some - the kids know at least one night a week (if not two) they get to pick what they eat. They like being able to do that. And since it's all leftovers, it's food I don't mind them eating!

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Oh my goodness, a lightbulb just went off for me. Having serving sized frozen portions for those kinda nights....BRILLIANT!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 6 comments
    • I often have my girls go food shopping with me so they select what THEY want to eat. The beauty, too, of freezing foods is that you might have a piece of lasagna left over, a chicken breast, a chili, etc. and satisfy everyon'e tastes while still eating together.
      over 2 years ago
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      onceamonthmom

      Heather, is that posted somewhere for others to read?

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      I LOVE the Unarguable 12! What are yours?

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Heather: I KNEW you were brilliant!

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      That was ME! I created the Unarguable 12 with my daughter Sadie!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I think you're GREAT BAd MAMA! Besides: it's for their own good!

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      that sounds like something I would like to read more about for the future!

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      WE DID THAT!!!! And my kids had to choose a new vegetable on each birthday. So that everytime that vegetable was served, they had to eat it. I know, I'm one BAD mama.

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 7 comments
    • One mom told me she signed a "food treaty" with her picky eating daughter as a way to avoid food arguments. That way your kids can choose what they want to eat in exchange for the "unarguable" must-eats.
      over 2 years ago
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      Emily

      ooohhh ... that sounds super easy and yummy.

      over 2 years ago

      kmb15

      It is so delicious and easy to prepare anytime you have downtime during the day - or even the night before!

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Yum!!

      over 2 years ago

      kmb15

      Roasted Sausage with Grapes and Red Onion. I tossed everything with Olive Oil and put in the baking pan in the fridge. Tonight I'll just toss it in the oven right before dinner!

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Kelsey, hi! What's for dinner tonight?

      over 2 years ago
    • kmb15 5 comments
    • Hi! Sorry to be late, happy to chime in (the electrician was here for an emergency visit this am). Daughter is napping and dinner is ready and in the fridge to be cooked tonight...
      over 2 years ago
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      Deborah

      I'll pass on the large slice of mom-guilt pie, thank you. I'm happy it wasn't served up here!!!! What works--works. End of story.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Way too much! Hands in the middle, ladies - we're all signing on for the no-guilt approach to family meals. And while we're at it, let's shed some of that other guilt around the edges too.

      over 2 years ago

      JenSinger

      There's too much mom guilt period!

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      Yeah. There's way too much mom-guilt out there about what we eat/serve.

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 4 comments
    • Honestly? I think it's simply about being real and honest with yourself. What are you comfortable with in your gut? I don't think any of us moms should "judge" other moms based on what works for them. It's what works for YOUR family.
      over 2 years ago
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      JenSinger

      I already gave Rach her props: http://www.mommasaid.net/mommablog/2010/03/25/rachael-ray-saved-my-marriage/

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      A Father's Day Talk perhaps?

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Me? I hand my hubby a grocery list.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Wow. Sounds like fodder for another chat. Keeping hubby happy. And/or How Rachael Ray can Save Your Marriage.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Thank you, Rachel Ray!!!

      over 2 years ago

      JenSinger

      I'm also a fan of thescramble.com. Plus anything Rachael Ray. I hate cooking, but I have the weekday meals, while my husband is the weekend chef. So I feel pressure to cook well for him because he loves to cook. I swear, Rachael Ray saved my marriage.

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      I also like menufortheweek.com and thescramble.com for some good recipe ideas. And they also offer meal planning service for you if you don't want to do it yourself.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      the company was stared by a dad of three who also wanted to serve his family healthy meals but needed help. It's like a 2010 version (A MILLION times better!) than hamburger helper.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I also love mealmakeovermoms.com for recipes. they are easy to make. I've also bought these meal kits from www.thehealthypantry.com. You just add the meat (they come in low-fat, gluten-free, etc.) and you're set to go. Their skillet lasagna and chili are my faves.

      over 2 years ago
    • tech4mommies 9 comments
    • I use http://www.kitchenmonki.com to plan my meals. It's so easy, there are tons of recipes already there, or you can enter your own. Then you print out the week and have your shopping list/meal plan/and all the recipes for the week right there. I love not having to remember which cookbooks a certain recipe is in to make it that day.
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Yes, it's meant to be "digestible" pieces of info..so busy moms don't have to read in one fell swoop.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      I love the design of your book, Jeanne - it's soooooo easier to pick up and read at a moment's notice. I've had it on my desk for a week or so and every day I get another great nugget of information! Thank you!!!

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      I love that Jeanne, it is so important. Here is where people can find out more about your amazing book - http://www.dinnerforbusymoms.com/

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 3 comments
    • My book is not about telling you ONE way to do things. It's like a smorgesbord menu where you can pick and choose your battles/strategies/ideas. It's really, too, about doing dinner a little better than you are now.
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Agree. I've said it before and say it again: PLAN to plan. KNOW or figure out when you have time to get it together and that makes it so much easier.

      over 2 years ago

      kmb15

      That's exactly what I do, too. "Fitting Great Food into Family Life" is my motto, fit in the great cooking wherever. It works out and it's fun!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      And Nicole makes dinner at night when she's up working late..right NIcole? (her tip on that is in my book)

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      Especially since the time right before dinner can be some of the worst times for kids' behavior - tired, hungry meltdowns anyone?

      over 2 years ago

      kmb15

      Exactly! I use it as my leisure time in the kitchen. Sometimes I even make dinner when my daughter is at a playdate or at her little preschool class. It's fun for me, and makes it so much easier.

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      I love that name! Your kids' naptime can be a great time to make dinner.

      over 2 years ago
    • kmb15 6 comments
    • Also, I am Kelsey The Naptime Chef (kmb15)
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Sprout.com also offers GREAT information (Full disclosure: I have a story there on taming temper tantrums)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Hello lurkers!

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      That's a reminder for all the lurkers! :-)

      over 2 years ago
    • Emily 3 comments
    • Just a reminder! Dive into the conversation by posting or commenting if you'd like to enter to win the month's supply of delicious, organic baby food from Sprout!!!
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      It is overwhelming And of course no "one size fits all" solution.

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      I am not kidding - when we first learned my dd couldn't have gluten/soy/dairy - I think we ate chicken and rice every night for like 2weeks. Husband claims it was a month. But I was seriously clueless as what the heck in the world to feed her. That was just about 4 years ago - and they didn't make a lot of stuff she could eat. I drove an hour to find a selection for her. Now, even target carries some gf things. I'm glad it's more readily available! And we eat more than chicken and rice now LOL!

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      I was only feeding him occasionally. It has to be overwhelming for parents dealing with allergies and stuff like Celiac. And I really like this little boy. But, I am really super nice, too. And BAD.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      PS but you are ONE SUPER NICE BAD MAMA! (written/typed with love)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      It's always so much easier when it's someone else's kid, right?

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Well, yes, I can agree 200% with that =)

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      I am super nice. :)

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Also, that's super nice of you to read up on it and see what was safe and not safe for him! =)

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      ROFL!! Too funny!!

      over 2 years ago
    • Deborah 9 comments
    • Funny story: My nine year old's best buddy was diagnosed with Celiac Disease (this is not the funny part). Read whatever I could to get a better understanding...so that his parent's would feel fine about their little guy at our home. He would often come over all day. I'd feed him. His mom was really struggling with what to feed him everyday. He'd get bored. She calls me and says, "I've looked everywhere for that cheese." I say, "it's everywhere" Apparently, she was looking for *pepperMINT* cheese, not pepperJACK cheese. A cheese her dear son would NOT try at home. Kids--ya gotta love 'em!!!! Really. Peppermint cheese? I probably wouldn't try THAT!!!
      over 2 years ago
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      HeatherS

      Thanks so much - I never buy anything without consulting consumerreports.com

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Thanks for being here! =)

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Any time you want to tell us about your awesome reports - or anything - let us know! That would be great!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      thanks SOO much. FUN reconnecting Gayle!!

      over 2 years ago

      Gayle Williams

      Thanks very much for having me! Would love to chat with all of you again!

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Gayle, THANK YOU SO MUCH for being here! You've added so much to the conversation! We are big fans of Consumer Reports and love the work you do!!!

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Thank you so much Gayle, it was so much fun and such an honor to talk with you and ask you questions about your great work! Thank you!!!!!!

      over 2 years ago
    • Gayle Williams 7 comments
    • Folks, this has been enlightening and fun, but I have to return to work now. Thanks so much for the chance to chat with all of you!
      over 2 years ago
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      Chefdruck

      Mine is @chefdruck

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      my twitter is dinner4moms

      over 2 years ago

      kmb15

      @TheNaptimeChef

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      So fun! What is everyone's Facebook, Twitter handles? My twitter is @jacksharvest and Facebook is http://www.facebook.com/pages/edit/?id=41164966265#!/pages/Jacks-Harvest-Frozen-Organic-Baby-Food/41164966265

      over 2 years ago

      Dawn Viola

      My pleasure, always glad to help :-) Have a great day {and great dinner!}

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Thank you Dawn, you shared such great information!!!!

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Thanks Dawn!! Have a great rest of the day! =)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      LOVED having you, Dawn. Thanks again for all your AMAZING suggestions and tips!

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Thank you, Dawn, wonderful mama! I love your list of 30 minutes or less meals and all the ideas you shared today!! Let us know when your blog post is up with the expanded list of recipe ideas and we'll swing by and share some love!!!

      over 2 years ago
    • Dawn Viola 9 comments
    • I have to run - must finish dinner, run to market, pick daughter up from school, mommy stuff! I so enjoyed talking with everyone and reading your inspiring ideas!! Thank you to all of our experts and moms, and thank you, Jeanne, for such a wonderful book! Please stay in touch, ladies!!
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      Using "their" shows and "their" music is a great springboard to conversations.

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      we have those conversation starter cards on the dinner table - things like if you could be anything when you grow up, what would you be?

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      That is great. I find that anything that seems "sensitive" in the news she is afraid will be too heavy and she shuts down. Maybe something like who will be the judge next year on American Idol is the place to start.

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      Perhaps instead of asking a general question like "what are you grateful for?" ask something more specific, e.g., "which celebrity/sports figure/movie/TV show, etc. are you grateful for and why?" and definitely allow/encourage humorous answers.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Setting up some kind of ritual like that is a great idea for stirring conversation. (not the pun on "stirring"...I've got food on the brain!)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Doesn't always work. but it's nice to try. One mom talked to me about having a "talk about it bowl" where they'd put things in the bowl (articles, books, a flower, etc.) to discuss later.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I also think pulling articles out of the newspaper/magazines about what is happing in the world; talking about them; bringing current events to table, especially when they are tweens, is a good way to get them engaged and start a ritual of talking about things bigger than you.

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Love that. Any ideas on engaging a 13 year old around gratitude? : )

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      A classic that never gets old - sharing something you're grateful for.

      over 2 years ago
    • Emily 9 comments
    • How about traditions and rituals around mealtime? I'd love to hear about your favorites and try some new ones out in my house!
      over 2 years ago
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      kmb15

      I agree, nourishing your family should feel good. They will get that vibe from you, too.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      I like your analogy.

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Do you as a family refer to the experience as a "warm hug"? I LOVE THAT!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 3 comments
    • The idea of making dinner an important part of your day is a ritual. I call it a "warm hug" at the end of a long day. For us, it's Sunday nights. That's family night. Period. End of story.
      over 2 years ago
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      Brandie

      We are so into dinner being the catch-up. Not always, but it is more than it isn't. We definitely need to shift away from that and into the bigger picture.

      over 2 years ago

      Laurie

      I agree - one girl in one of my classes started a conversation as we sat down to eat. "What was your high so far today" It was her family ritual - I've embraced it since...

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      So less about the practical and more about big picture?

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 3 comments
    • It's also, too, about talking and sharing and perhaps talking about all you are grateful for, rather than making dinner the "catch up" time to talk who's driving who to soccer practice, or rushing to ballet.
      over 2 years ago
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      RobynsWorld

      You can find my after dinner Rice Krispies Treats recipe and a bunch of others who came with great ideas here on TheMotherhood in the Rice Krispies Recipe Box Circle http://www.themotherhood.com/circle/show/id/61764

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      wow. send the recipe. sounds yummy.

      over 2 years ago

      RobynsWorld

      My parents always love eating after dinner mints and so we had them pretty regularly growing up. When I did the Rice Krispies Treats campaign and I was looking at the store for add-ins I saw the chocolate mints (I used Jr. Mints) and thought that would be fun to make after dinner Rice Krispies Treats for my family

      over 2 years ago

      RobynsWorld

      We always try to eat dinner together as a family, very important to all of us. We usually manage to do it all but a couple of times a month. We relax at dinner also, no rush usually and we sit and talk and enjoy each other's company

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Hi Robyn!

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      tail end of the fun, but there is still 15 minutes left. What do you want to chat about? :)

      over 2 years ago

      RobynsWorld

      You all are so sweet - thanks for the warm welcomes

      over 2 years ago

      rockandrollmama

      Hi Robyn! Nice to see you!

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Robyn!!!!!!!!!! Tell us how you get dinner on the table, or what you guys talk about at dinner. Any traditions or rituals you do? Maybe tell us about your award winning Rice Krispies after dinner treat recipe? : )

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Hi Robyn! Welcome!!! Soooo pleased to see you!

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Hi Robyn! Welcome =)

      over 2 years ago

      RobynsWorld

      did I miss all the fun?

      over 2 years ago

      onceamonthmom

      Well, hey there Robyn!

      over 2 years ago
    • RobynsWorld 13 comments
    • Hi all - this is my first live talk here
      over 2 years ago
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      Jeanne Muchnick

      And nothing's better than warm chocolate chip cookies and milk!

      over 2 years ago

      Chefdruck

      Kathleen, I so agree with you. Snacktime right after school is great for us. I get the news fresh from school with hot chocolate chip cookies as bribes!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      And being together for breakfast...or lunch... or a picnic at softball field is also fine.

      over 2 years ago

      RobynsWorld

      I agree on connecting while out at dinner too. We also have a no cell phone rule at meals generally - that means no texting, no FB updates, no twitter, no calls, etc.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I agree. Which is why I say it's what works for each family. Some days it might be once a week dinner. Some weeks none. Some weeks four. The fact that you're TRYING is good enough.

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      I just wanted to throw that out there because (back to the guilt again) I know that for lots of families it's not possible to get everyone together for dinner as often as they'd like.

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      It's also my favorite meal. But dare I say that's because wine is involved? (often helps me deal with the "whine!")

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      I should add, too, that dinner can also be dinner out with your family...doesn't always have to be at home that you share rituals and great conversations.

      over 2 years ago

      kmb15

      Agreed. Growing up we were always a morning catch-up family. I guess we are more morning people I guess. :) Car rides or walks to the bus can be great too!

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      So true, Kathleen. Thanks for that reminder.

      over 2 years ago
    • Kathleen Cuneo 10 comments
    • Just wanted to add that even though dinner is the favorite meal for me and my family (and my business), dinner is certainly not the only opportunity you have to connect with your kids.
      over 2 years ago
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      kmb15

      That's really cool Jeanne - I love the idea of profits benefiting charity.

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      Thank you. It was my pleasure.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Jeanne, this has been the most amazing, info-filled Talk!!! I've learned so much and been incredibly inspired! Thank you!!!!!!!

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Thanks Jeanne!

      over 2 years ago

      HeatherS

      Thanks! Had a great time!

      over 2 years ago

      Chefdruck

      Just jumping in very, very late after a long soaked field trip to the zoo to say that I love Jeanne's book. Her style is so inspiring. Having a copy in the kitchen is like having a good friend at your side.

      over 2 years ago

      Deborah

      Thank you so MUCH Jeanne!!!! I'm looking forward to digesting your book!!!!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 7 comments
    • I SOOOO appreciate you all joining and hope you take a look at my book. Proceeds from profits benefit an organization (family-to-family.org) that helps feed hungry families across the U.S. I think -- speaking of rituals -- that it's a great way to involve your children in teaching them how fortunate they are.
      over 2 years ago
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      onceamonthmom

      Oh my goodness! I didn't even know I could win being an "expert" and all. LOL. So excited as Tessa is starting into solids this very week! Thanks ladies! And thanks #SproutNation!

      over 2 years ago

      Nicole Bohorad

      Congratulations, Tricia!

      over 2 years ago

      RobynsWorld

      Congrats Tricia (and baby)

      over 2 years ago

      Brandie

      Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!! =)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      Wow Tricia -- you're on a roll. Congrats!

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      And the winner is .... Tricia, from Once A Month Mon!!!! Congratulations, Tricia!!!!!!!!!!!!

      over 2 years ago
    • Emily 6 comments
    • Hi everyone! We're giving away a month of organic, yummy baby food from Sprout Baby Food in just a minute! Their food is soooooo yummy looking! I WISH they had been around when my kids were little - baked sweet potatoes with white beans - yum, right?! They actually roast the veggies before making the baby food so there's extra flavor! Here's the link to Sprout: http://www.sproutbabyfood.com We'll do the drawing in just a sec.
      over 2 years ago
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    • Jeanne Muchnick 0 comments
    • I hope this chat was helpful to all you moms out there. The message: the "good enough" dinner is good enough. But dinner together IS possible. Just plan to plan. Use shortcuts. Love your freezer. Engage your family. Keep it simple.
      over 2 years ago
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      Emily

      Vanessa, the gray hair comment - too funny.

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Kathleen, that's so wonderful!! I'm signing up!!! And Robyn, I love "do you know?" My girls will be so into that.

      over 2 years ago

      kmb15

      That's so much fun!

      over 2 years ago

      Kathleen Cuneo

      I include a "conversation starter of the month" in my Dinner Together newsletter. You can sign up for it at www.dinnertogether.com.

      over 2 years ago

      RobynsWorld

      We do "did you know" during dinner (and other times) a lot. Everyone takes turns giving a random fact about whatever they want. We start some interesting conversations this way.

      over 2 years ago

      Nicole Bohorad

      hi Vanessa! that's pretty funny! and a great idea!

      over 2 years ago
    • Chefdruck 6 comments
    • We've been using these great conversation starter cards at dinner with off the wall questions like "what would you take to a desert island" and "If you could have any hair color, what would it be?" They're great. My son's answer? Gray.
      over 2 years ago
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      Brandie

      Thank you everyone for being here!! =)

      over 2 years ago

      Jeanne Muchnick

      so fun, right? I'm a true believer we get our best ideas from other women. Girlfriends -- even virtual ones - rock!

      over 2 years ago

      Nicole Bohorad

      thanks, Jeanne! a great conversation with wonderful ideas.

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 3 comments
    • Hope we covered everything. Again: thank you Emily for setting up and organizing. And thank you all for sharing.
      over 2 years ago
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      kmb15

      Anytime, seriously! We could all go on for hours... :)

      over 2 years ago

      Emily

      Kelsey, thank you so much for being here!!!!!!!

      over 2 years ago
    • kmb15 2 comments
    • Thanks for hosting us Emily & Cooper, you guys rock!
      over 2 years ago
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    • Jeanne Muchnick 0 comments
    • I forgot to say it's also a good idea to be a good role model to your kids. If you eat healthy, they will too.
      over 2 years ago
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      Emily

      And you were so so great at putting all the ingredients together! :)

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 1 comment
    • Yes, thanks Emily and Cooper. You both are GREAT hosts and really "stir" the conversation (sorry, couldn't help the food pun!)
      over 2 years ago
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      Emily

      So so so wonderful!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!

      over 2 years ago

      Cooper

      Thank you SO much. This was fantastic!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you!

      over 2 years ago
    • Jeanne Muchnick 2 comments
    • Goodbye all!
      over 2 years ago
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    • RobynsWorld 0 comments
    • Sorry I only caught the end, had a few spare minutes, now I'm off on the run again. Great topic, I could have talked and talked about this LOL
      over 2 years ago
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    • thienkim 0 comments
    • Sorry I missed the talk! Can't wait to go through and everything.
      over 2 years ago
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    • StephanieMoritz 0 comments
    • I really enjoyed the chat. THANK YOU to all of the experts! Very valuable information. I can't wait to go home and try out the recipes with my family and institute a new dinner time routine. Thanks again!!
      over 2 years ago
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    • Jessica Ares 0 comments
    • Looking foward to new chats, I just joined and am always looking for new ideas an recipes.
      about 1 year ago
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    • Mommy Instincts 0 comments
    • I am so glad that a "non-cook" is being recognized here! I seriously WANT to be able to cook, I just can't! Maybe I can learn some tricks here! ;-)
      about 1 year ago
Talk Description

We're talking with Jeanne Muchnick about her new book, "Dinner for Busy Moms" and easy strategies for getting our family to the table. We'll share some of our favorite recipes (even for us non-cooks) and conversation starters beyond, "What'd you do in school today?" Thank you to the WONDERFUL co-hosts joining the conversation (see the Talk sidebar for the full list)! Sponsored by Sprout Baby Food.

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