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Lori ~ Divvies
It is critical to distinguish foods by their true names. Foods are are either safe or not safe. It is critical that they are called by their proper names.
about 1 year agoDaniella
I absolutely believe in using correct terminology. That way nothing changes as they get older and there is less chance confusion when others talk about 'milk'. My kids both know they drink 'soy milk' NOT cow's milk. I think there's less chance for error especially once they hit preschool age. My kids have been in some kind of childcare/preschool since 8 months of age.
about 1 year agoMommmy
Our daughter is a teen now, and if she finds food in the kitchen on the counter, or a knife she wants to use, she'll ask, MOM is this knife SAFE?
about 1 year agoLaura
My 2 year old daughter is allergic to dairy. After we had an accident with cow milk and it was put into her sippy cup, we started calling her milk soy milk. We even say it as we prepare it, I am getting Alyssa's SOY milk as an extra step to try and prevent another accident happening. So, I think it is important to distinguish early on.
about 1 year agomommaoffour
We call it Rowan's milk, and Rowan's ice cream, at this point, he was just recently diagnosed with the milk allergy, so we differentiate by making sure he understand this is his milk, that is his siblings milk.
about 1 year agojgs
I would always use the distinction......my daughter knew that she could only eat her special M & Es (e for Ellie) and NEVER M&Ms......they look exactly the same and it was important for her to know the difference in case someone offered her M&Ms
about 1 year agoGina Rau
Great question. We've always called our vegan options milk, butter, yogurt, etc. too! Our son knows not to drink anything that he doesn't know the ingredients or that it is dairy free, but he can read and fully verbalize that. When he was younger we'd talk about cow milk.
about 1 year agoMommmy
We used the term "safe" - this milk is "safe" for you - so as she grew, that was how we ask if a product is "safe" for us...
about 1 year agoTraci
My three year old definitely understands that he can have soy milk & things that contain soy milk, but that cow's milk makes him swell up. I suggest using the correct terms from the start.
about 1 year agoFeatured Guest
Anne-Marie
Since he's so little, I'm sure it can be confusing for him. Maybe call it his "special milk" or use the terms "soy milk" or "rice milk" so he can learn that it's different from cow's milk? As he gets older, he'll understand the differences better so he can make good choices when he's not at home.
about 1 year agoAbbeyM
What a great question. I have no idea how or when to start verbalizing my 15-month old's allergy.
about 1 year agoMarla
In my opinion, no. But once he reaches preschool it will be very important that he knows his milk is different than other people's and that his ice cream is different.
about 1 year agoFeatured Guest
SusanWeissman
You would be surprised that a 8 yr. old can pronounce soy lecithin!
about 1 year agoHeather
I was wondering the same thing. My son who is also 2 drinks rice milk and calls it milk. Also he uses the Earth Balance spread and we call it butter. Good question,
about 1 year agocararolinson
I know my own kids 3 & 4 yrs old would 100% accept the correct names for things. I would probably start using them.
about 1 year agoLindsey
we always are specific, cow's milk is a no no
about 1 year agoHope M. Hill
to him, it is milk and ice cream. As he gets older, he'll learn to read the ingredients like mom and dad do.
about 1 year agoFeatured Guest
SusanWeissman
I had the same dilemna and was advised to use "real words" so later in life, he won't confuse a caregiver or teacher.
about 1 year ago