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Motherhood on the Rocks
Kimberly, I can leave the house, but once I get home, I HAVE TO shower and give the baby a bath or I feel like the house will be contaminated with germs. I won't even sit on the couch until I shower.
4 months agoFeatured Guest
Kimberly
Lynse,
4 months agoIt's hard to not feel guilty but I think that we really need time to be by ourselves. It recharges our souls.
Can you set aside 30 minutes a day? Read a book? Bath? WAlk?
andrea
I definitely do! I have a moms night out once a month and started a moms group so I am involved with that too. I also will take a class once a week such as yoga or zumba!
4 months agoFeatured Guest
Kimberly
Cand,
4 months agoExercise is really good!
Talk Host
Katherine Stone
I so agree on the issue of sleep. SLEEP! So key!!
4 months agoFeatured Guest
Kimberly
Motherhood,
4 months agoI suffered with agoraphobia on top of this. I was terrified to leave my house. What helped me was joining a mom and babies group. It got me out of the house once a week for an hour. I also did things like taking small walks around the neighborhood and going for drives by myself.
Is there someone that can be with you when you leave the hosue?
Amber Koter
Self-care is so important. For some reason people marvel that I am "able" to do that. Really, I just make choices (like buying clothes at Target so I can afford a babysitter and go to lunch with a friend, get a pedicure or go to yoga). It is not at all selfish. Even short breaks can make all the difference in the world (you know how naptime is glorious when they actually sleep??? :-)
4 months agoFeatured Guest
Kimberly
James,
4 months agoThat is also a really hard thing to deal with when you're working too. But it's so important to take a time out. A hot bubble bath and girl time is awesome
Featured Guest
Kimberly
Becca,
4 months agoSleep is also very very VERY good and nourishing.
Lynseleanne
See, that's so hard for me because I am currently working ft and pt jobs. I am away so long that I feel guilty if i take a nap or don't spend time with him. But Sunday I took a nap. And I felt a lot better.
4 months agoCandilnm
It took me some time(19 months), but I joined a gym...it may only happen once a week, but its nice to be alone and doing something good for myself. Although my one hour a week with my therapist is my time too
4 months agoTalk Host
Katherine Stone
I haven't been very good at that, so this year I made it a goal. Like my New Year's resolution: take care of myself!! I've been eating better. Haven't figured out how to fit exercise into my routine yet, but need to. I've also been doing a better job asking for what I need and not accepting no for an answer.
4 months agoMotherhood on the Rocks
It's hard for me too. The OCD makes it scary for me to be around other people.
4 months agoFeatured Guest
jamesandjax
Oh it's such a struggle, especially because I work f/t outside the home & already feel guilty I'm away from my son so much. But I do make sure when I am overwhelmed that I have 30-45 minutes for a hot bubble bath (typically 1-2 times per week). I meet with a friend when I can, usually once a month.
4 months agobecca_lizabeth
Its so hard for me. I want to sleep any time I have a spare minute
4 months ago