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Building Your Blog Community: Part One – Blogging 101

February 28, 2012 by The Motherhood

 

Starting a blog isn’t much harder than choosing a blog name and a platform, clicking a few buttons, and starting to write. But if you build it, will anyone come? And what will happen when they get there?

 

Today in The Motherhood, we had a great talk with an exceptional panel of bloggers who enlightened us on everything from the administrative to the creative, and gave guidance to beginning and longtime bloggers alike on building our blog communities.

 

Vera Sweeney of Lady and the Blog, Melissa Chapman of Married My Sugar Daddy, Nadia Carriere of Child Mode, Audrey McClelland of Mom Generations,  Annie Shultz of Mama Dweeb, Victoria Pericon of Veep Veep, Whitney Wingerd of Mommies with Style, and Megan Crume of Sweet Sadie Marie weighed in on the blogging questions you’ve always wanted answered.

 

 

If you build it…

 

First, of course, you have to build the blog. When asked whether it was more important to have a great looking blog or one with great content, the panelists were unanimous: it’s all about the content. Annie of Mama Dweeb noted, “Content is King! That is what they told me in newspaper class and that applies to blogging.” Even an ugly site with great content draws readers back, though an attractive site may keep them there longer.

 

How to make that site good looking? Nadia of Child Mode and Whitney of Mommies with Style advise that WordPress and TypePad have lots of easy-to-use templates and themes. Vera of Lady and the Blog recommends “adding more images and videos that are engaging for the readers.” She cautions, though, that it’s never okay to grab images from other websites, even if you credit them. If you use others’ images, you should be prepared to pay for them.

 

Along with good content and good looks, several panelists emphasized that regular posting is critical. Vera said, “You should carve out time each day. Even on the weekends I sneak over to the computer and get at least one post up.”

 

 

After you build the blog itself, it’s time to build relationships. Vera summed it up neatly when she said, “Building relationships is key to any successful business. With blogging, there are three types of relationships that need attention:

 

-Blogger to Blogger: Start linking to like blogs with similar traffic. Do weekly roundups. Post one another’s badges on your sidebars. Tweet one another’s work. There is strength in numbers.

 

-Blogger to Brand: Become friendly with reps. Attend events. Work on projects and keep the communication line open. Make them remember you.

 

-Blogger to Reader: Reply back to comments. Offer something special on your newsletter, interact on your Facebook wall. All these things matter.”

 

To build relationships with other bloggers, consider joining a blogging group (or a few). As far as building Blogger to Brand relationships, the panel was mixed about whether it was easier to build relationships directly with brands or to go through PR agencies.

 

 

What to do to get noticed by brands? Again, the panel emphasized content. Megan of Sweet Sadie Marie said to ask yourself who and what you’re passionate about–that will guide you.  Melissa of Married My Sugar Daddy added that “when you’ve got really good content, it’s easier to make brands notice you–and you will feel a lot more confident making those introductions when you’ve got the blog content to back it up.” Vera and several panelists also recommended having a media kit, something you can send to PR reps to showcase your brand relationships and past work.

 

As you build relationships, especially with bloggers and readers, you’ll build audience. Vera recommends increasing SEO by tagging your posts with keywords and repeating those in the post itself; matching your post title to its first paragraph, and using bullets and headers (which search engines love) throughout your post. Annie adds that it’s wise to think about specific terms readers might be searching for, and using those in your post title in lieu of something more generic.

 

Another way to grow your audience is the use of Twitter, Pinterest, Facebook, and the like to drive traffic to your site. Whitney says she uses “auto-feeds–everything I post goes straight to my Facebook page and Twitter feed–makes it nice and easy and I get a ton of traffic that way. ” For those who are not seeing success from those methods, Victoria of Veep Veep reminds, “Talk with others. If you write but never reply to e-mails or respond to comments or tweets, then they won’t come back.” In other words: engage your audience. Nadia recommends participating in memes such as Wordless Wednesday as a good way to connect with other bloggers and build audience.

 

 

…They will come.

 

Your hard work will pay off, the panelists agreed, but be patient and persistent. Annie said, “There is no such thing as overnight success with blogging. It takes most bloggers at LEAST six months of hard work before they see a dime.”

 

Several panelists offered their best tips for getting paid. Vera said, “Don’t be afraid to pitch yourself,” and recommended charging for contests, even if it’s only $25. “Something is better than nothing.”  Whitney cautioned, “Do NOT work for free with the promise of a later paid gig! There are so many of these ‘offers’ out there. You are worth more.”

 

As important as it is to know your worth and to be paid, don’t get hung up on earnings and pageviews. As Audrey of Mom Generations wisely observed, “It will come if you keep with it. As soon as I let that piece of it go and started producing content that I loved and was ultra passionate about, doors began to open.”

 

You can read the full transcript of the Talk here.

 

Next up we’ll be posting a second part summary of the Building Your Blog Community: Part Two – Advanced Blogging. Look for that post soon! Thanks!

Filed Under: Influencers & Impact, Research & Insights, Trending & Social Media Tagged With: Becki King, blogging, business, business of blogging, marketing to moms, mom blogs, The Motherhood

On the Road of Life, Open Your Heart to Happy Accidents

January 28, 2012 by The Motherhood

When you think about it, life is pretty crazy. There are so many twists and turns in our path – many of them things we never would have predicted in a million years! But it occurred to me last night that there is another beautiful thing about life. And that is, it seems to me, that even in the worst of times, somehow the right people to see you through it are put in your path. And that, my friends, is exactly how I feel about Emily and Cooper. They were put in my life at just the right time.

 

At the time, I was a stay-at-home mom to three kids. I’ll admit it, I was lonely. The economy was starting to tank, so we worried about that. But to keep my sanity, I crafted. And then I blogged about my crafts, because well, it beat talking to myself about them!  And there is only so much knitting talk my husband and children can take.

 

Through my blog, I discovered The Motherhood. It was love at first sight. I felt like I had found the perfect spot on the Internet for someone like me. And so I linked. I commented. My husband might say I became addicted. I was very happy.

 

Then, one day, I got an email from Cooper saying she wanted to talk. To me. I won’t lie. I totally geeked out. You would have thought, to hear me talk, the president himself had called and asked for a few moments of my time! Cooper and Emily invited me to help them out on the site. I still remember Cooper telling me to take some time to think about it, and in my head I was thinking, Um, yeah. No. I don’t need time. Of course I want to help! I consider that one of the smarter decisions in my life!

 

Since then, as The Motherhood has grown, so have my friendships with so many amazing people. The Motherhood is full of such amazing women I am honored to call friends. These friends have seen me, and continue to support me, through my worst days. Truly. Last spring, when I had to share with  Emily and Cooper that I had been diagnosed with breast cancer, they were there for me. And when I shared on the site my news, I felt like my Motherhood friends wrapped their arms around me and comforted me. I have been given love and strength from them. I have been showered with kindness. I have a place I can go and be completely myself and am accepted with wide open arms.

 

I can’t imagine life without The Motherhood in it. I am so thankful that Emily and Cooper not only shared a dream, but that they went out and worked hard to see it come true. That these two amazing women created a place where moms (and dads!) can come together – from celebrating life’s wonderful moments to getting support in darker moments, and of course all the myriad moments in between. I am not exaggerating when I say my life is richer, my heart is bigger, my soul is gentler and my world is bigger. All because Emily and Cooper had an incredible vision and made it come true.

Filed Under: Influencers & Impact, Research & Insights Tagged With: blogging, blogs, Brandie Langer, community, friends

Things Happen When You Get Out Of The House

January 24, 2012 by The Motherhood

 

I once heard a wise saying: Things happen when you get out of the house. It’s simple, but it’s true: You’re a lot more likely to meet your neighbor if you’re in your front yard instead of your kitchen. You won’t meet the love of your life if you hunker down on your couch to watch reruns, but you might if you go to that party you were invited to. If you don’t go downtown, you won’t see the “Help Wanted” sign that leads you to your dream job. If you put yourself out there, you never know what might happen.

 

In 2005, I had two little kids, and I wasn’t getting out of the house (alone) nearly as much as I wanted to. I loved my kids, but I craved the company of like-minded moms. I had recently seen a link to a blog in one of my favorite magazines. I followed the link. I loved the blog. I started one of my own. As I wrote, I began to read. I played “blogscotch,” finding a blog I liked and then visiting blogs in that blog’s blogroll, and so on and so on. One day I saw a link to a blog called “Been There.” It was even better than I’d hoped—not one, but two women: smart, funny, sympathetic. They really had been where I was; they got it. Then came my “getting out of the house” moment. Instead of just reading, I left a comment.

 

Through that comment, one of the women, Cooper, found and commented on my blog. That reaching back was the start of an online friendship between me and Cooper and her co-blogger, Emily, too. They were the kind of mom, the kind of friend, that I wanted to be. And they made it feel like it was possible.

 

When Hurricane Katrina hit, I sent a check to the Red Cross. I sat in my house, wringing my hands, wishing there were more I could do. Cooper and Emily DID something. They started the “Been There Clearinghouse.” If someone who fled New Orleans needed a crib, or clothes, or anything, Cooper and Emily found a way to connect them with people who had those things to give away. If someone had something to offer, Cooper and Emily connected them with someone who needed it. Here I was just trying to get out of the house, for Pete’s sake; they were helping people who no longer had houses to get out of.

 

One day I got an e-mail from Emily: would I be willing to give her my phone number and actually talk on the phone? Of course, I said, despite my husband’s mutterings about Internet safety and his suspicions that “Cooper and Emily” was really an ex-con in a stained undershirt who lured unsuspecting suburban moms to his paneled basement lair. I gave my number, and soon I was hearing the real voices of these women I already loved and admired (or the surprisingly convincing voices of two women the ex-con had imprisoned in his basement as part of his diabolical plan).

 

It was really them, though—and they had a very non-diabolical plan of their own: a website for moms, a place to gather, share ideas, learn, talk, laugh, support each other, maybe even change the world. A virtual neighborhood—a Motherhood. It barely seemed possible to me; I mean, I was having a hard enough time getting the laundry done. Run a website? One that would really matter? Well, if anyone could do it, my money would have been on Emily and Cooper. I listened to them, laughing with delight and anticipation as they talked about their plans. Did I want in, to participate in some way? Of course I did. Who wouldn’t?

 

The Motherhood has been a lot of different things to me, just as “real life” friendships are. I have to put that phrase in quotes, because the friendships I’ve developed with Cooper and Emily and other women through the Motherhood are no less real or substantive than the friendship I have with my neighbor across the street.

 

Whether I was feeling grateful, fearful or hopeful, the Motherhood gave me a place to share. If I was in a valley and cried out, other voices, kinder ones, echoed back at me. When I decided I wanted to donate diapers to a local clinic for homeless women and their children, the Motherhood encouraged me (and Cooper and Emily were the first to send diapers—big boxes of them!). After almost seven years of being a stay-at-home mom, I decided to start my own family law practice. On the days I doubted I could do it, guess where some of my best encouragement came from? I had a Motherhood behind me, believing in me. So I believed in myself. The practice flourished, so much so that I was too exhausted at night to get online much. When I did make it to The Motherhood, the welcome was always warm. And when I had to close my practice so my husband could take a new job out of state, The Motherhood provided a place to voice my excitement at a new adventure, and the grief of leaving home.

 

Who would have thought all of that could spring from one little comment on a blog? I stepped outside of my “house,” my comfort zone, that day, and talked to a “stranger,” and things did indeed happen: I found new friends and a place that still feels like home.

 

Filed Under: Research & Insights Tagged With: Becki King, blogging, community, friends, inspiration, moms, The Motherhood

State of the Mom Blogosphere 2012

January 18, 2012 by The Motherhood

When you put nine elite bloggers in a virtual “room” with hundreds of participants for a live chat about the State of the Mom Blogosphere in 2012, some clear trends emerge.

 

Back in September 2010, we gathered the same group of insightful, exceptional women, and their predictions for the online world that year were incredibly accurate.  We were thrilled and honored to have them with us again on January 17, 2012 (our first day live on our new platform!), to share what matters to them this year in the mom blogosphere.

 

Here are the top 10 takeaways from the discussion.

 

1) Expand with the Online Universe

The online universe has grown, and it’s not all about the blog anymore. To keep up, you need to make your presence known elsewhere.

 

As BusyDad noted, “One’s blog is now one of many facets of our online lives, rather than being by default the center of it. Many online luminaries these days are famous for their Twitter persona or their Facebook, and not necessarily their blog.”

 

Agreed EvolvingStacey, “I feel as if my connections and growing network takes place away from my blog … My blog is more like my house, but I leave my house to be social.”

 

That’s not to say that your blog is unimportant.  Amie Adams of Mamma Loves pointed out, “I tend to think of my blog as the hub to my online wheel. Twitter, FB, Google+, online forums all split off from it. It’s like an online business card – brings you credibility.”

 

2) Pinterest is the New Twitter

While you are expanding your social media horizons beyond your blog, make Pinterest a priority.

 

If you haven’t heard of Pinterest yet, consider this your introduction to the hottest new social media site of 2012 – a virtual corkboard designed to give you visual inspiration or consolidate your favorite ideas from across the web.

 

“I haven’t seen this much excitement and addiction since Twitter in ’08,” Isabel Kallman of Alphamom said about the site.

 

You can get an account and start pinning here!

 

3) Newbie Bloggers Welcome – but Bring Your A Game

New to blogging?  There are a lot of mom blogs in the space, but if you are ready to dive in, you shouldn’t be intimidated.

 

“There will be a lot more chatter to cut through now. But I think awesome is awesome. And awesome rises to the top,” said Christine Koh of Boston Mamas.

 

She recommended that beginning mom bloggers turn to “The Digital Mom Handbook” and “Mom Inc.” for help.

 

For new and existing blogs alike, Kimberly Coleman of Foodie City Mom also has great suggestions for blogging goals in 2012 on She Posts.

 

4) There’s No One “Right” Way to Blog

Everyone blogs for different reasons, some intensely personal and some more business-focused.  But whatever your reason – your fellow bloggers accept it now more than ever before.

 

Liz Gumbinner of Mom101 and Cool Mom Picks mused, “I can go back to the dark ages of 2006 when there were debates about the right kind of blogging.  That increased tremendously in 2008 or so with the mass monetization of mom blogs.  Now there’s this wonderful sort of detente – there are so many kinds of moms with so many kinds of blogs, and fewer debates about who is right and who is wrong.

 

“There’s no one right way to blog.  It’s nice that there’s more acceptance of one another.”

 

5) Look for Creative Inspiration Everywhere

Whether you’re driving, watching TV, taking a shower – pay attention, and a brilliant blog post idea might just pop into your head.

 

Noted Jennifer James of Mom Bloggers Club, “I am constantly thinking about new posts to write and new perspectives to write them from. I carry a pad with me and jot down a lot of ideas on receipts. The wheels are constantly churning.”

 

And don’t underestimate that old advice – write what you know!

 

Allison Czarnecki of Petit Elefant‘s creative blog ideas “come from my life. If we’re remodeling a bathroom, I find a way to post about a how-to. If we’re traveling, I write about that, and I spend half my life creating beauty recipes, so I photograph them and write about it.”

 

6) Don’t Underestimate OR Overestimate the Power of SEO

Search Engine Optimization (SEO) can help bring traffic to your blog, but it’s not always the traffic you want or need.

 

Isabel Kallman of Alphamom said of her own success with SEO, “Started on WordPress, used the correct Plugin, changed the URL from the creative title, tagged my photos better … BUT DON’T FORGET: write great content.”

 

BusyDad pointed out, “Unless you have a review or cooking/recipe blog, I want to emphatically say that SEO is so much less important than engaged readers. Trust me… compelling content and engaged readers/friends are what will get you quality return visits, influence and credibility as a blogger.”

 

7) It’s Time to Bring Marketers Up to Speed

During the live chat, the group consensus was that marketers seem to target mom bloggers mostly for baby-related products.  Many felt that brands are missing the boat.

 

Tracey Clark of Shutter Sisters pointed out, “The tween and especially teen markets are hugely overlooked” by marketers in the mom blogosphere. “There’s got to be a shift soon there, doesn’t there?”

 

Amie Adams at Mamma Loves agreed, “My kids may develop their own tastes, but I’m the one who does the buying. I spend thousands on sports equipment, technology and clothing.”

 

 8) Help Your Blog Evolve as the Kids Grow Up

 

 

When our kids are babies and toddlers, many of us love to share every anecdote and detail of their lives.  When they get old enough to have their own online identities, respecting their privacy as an individual can change the face of your blog.

 

“I have started targeting my writing more toward the women with a shorter anecdote here and there about my kids,” said Andrea Updyke. “They are still young – oldest is 3 this month, but I already feel more protective of his story.”

 

“As our kids grow up, I think we naturally rediscover who we are individually, above and beyond mothers,” said Tracey Clark of Shutter Sisters. “This opens the doors up to new stories…it’s so exciting!”

 

9) Blogging Can Create a New “You” – Embrace It!

If you can identify your passion, find your niche and successfully write about it, your cup just might runneth over.

 

Justice Fergie said of her blog, “It’s given me an entire business, community, platform, brand image and now … a new way of life! I’m so excited to be working for myself, full-time. And it’s all thanks to blogging.”

 

Jennifer James of Mom Bloggers Club agreed, “Blogging has completely changed me. I see life and its possibilities in different ways – nothing is too big to tackle.”

 

10) What 2012 Might Have In Store

Social good, an increase in video blogging and fair compensation for brand-related projects were all tossed out as possible 2012 trends.

 

See more 2012 predictions in Jennifer James’ Mom Blog Magazine.

 

“I think 2012 will see Moms focus their efforts on *social change* via networks, communities and transitioning lifestyles,” said Mental_Clutter. “Gone are the days of tolerating drama, here are the days of moving forward to leave a substantial mark.”

 

“One the most interesting things to happen in the Mom Blogosphere is how many moms are taking their blogs to a new level,” added Rebecca Levey. “There are a lot of mini-media empires building beyond the blogs. Mom Blogs have become more like unique brands every year. ”

 

Agreed Shari, “We are already seeing the trends for 2012. So many fabulous women have taken it to the next level – magazines, TV, fashion shows – they have raised the bar. In a good way.”

 

 

That was one inspiring conversation.

We were there when the mom blogger community began, and we’ve watched as it has grown exponentially over the past several years.  We are constantly amazed by how quickly and how often the mom blogosphere changes.

 

Thank you to all of the amazing men and women who shared their thoughts with us on this fascinating topic!  You can find our co-hosts on their own blogs and elsewhere across the web in 2012:

 

Allison Czarnecki, Petit Elefant
Amie Adams, Mamma Loves
Christine Koh, Boston Mamas
Isabel Kallman, Alphamom
Jennifer James, Mom Bloggers Club and Jennifer James Online
Laura Mayes, Kirtsy and Mom 2.0 Summit
Liz Gumbinner, Mom101 and Cool Mom Picks
Stacie Ferguson, Justice Fergie and Blogalicious
Tracey Clark, Shutter Sisters and Tracey Clark

 

Check out a full transcript of the AMAZING conversation here.

 

 

Filed Under: Influencers & Impact, Research & Insights, Trending & Social Media Tagged With: blogging, business of blogging, Favorite, marketing to moms, mom blogs, The Motherhood, Top Lists

The State of the Mom Blogosphere: The First Talk On Our New Site!

January 15, 2012 by The Motherhood

We are THRILLED to announce that the very first Live Talk in the redesigned The Motherhood will be The State of the Mom Blogosphere on Tuesday, January 17th at 1:00 pm ET/10:00 am PT!

Leading the Live Talk is a fantastic group of elite mom bloggers, who all led an incredible Talk on the same topic in 2010:

 

Amie Adams, Mammaloves

Tracey Clark, Tracey Clark and Shutter Sisters

Allison Czarnecki, Petit Elephant

Liz Gumbinner, Mom101 and Cool Mom Picks

Jennifer James, Mom Bloggers Club, Mom Blog Magazine and Jennifer James Online

Isabel Kallman, AlphaMom

Christine Koh, Boston Mamas

Laura Mayes, Kirtsy and Mom 2.0 Summit

Stacey Ferguson, Life IS the Party and Blogalicious

 

Together, we will talk about trends shaping the mom blogosphere, the business of blogging, the impact of Twitter, Facebook and other social media platforms, where they get their creative inspiration and so much more!

 

The Motherhood Live Talks are all-text, live-blogging events that happen on the page in The Motherhood, and this one will happen right here – http://tmotherhood.wpengine.com/talk/show/id/62337

 

For those on Twitter, here are the Twitter IDs for the hosts (the hashtag is #TheMotherhood):

 

@alphamom, @bostonmamas, @justicefergie, @lmayes, @mammaloves, @mom101, @mombloggersclub, @petit_elefant, @traceyclark, @emilymckhann, @coopermunroe, @TheMotherhood, @beblogalicious, @coolmompicks, @mom2summit

 

Bring your questions, thoughts, stories and join us for an incredible kick-off conversation on Tuesday!!

 

Thank you wonderful hosts!!!  We can’t wait for Tuesday!!

Filed Under: News Tagged With: blogging, business of blogging, marketing to moms, mom blogs, The Motherhood

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